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February 6th, 2021, 10:17 PM
#581
Dreamer
Originally Posted by
BunnyGirl19
How are everyone’s pregnancies going? Just thought I’d give a little update on myself. We conceived again our first cycle trying after the miscarriage (from BD on Christmas) and found out last week we’re having twins!! I’m so excited; it’s my second set of twins!
Congratulations! That is so exciting!
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February 8th, 2021, 09:58 PM
#582
Originally Posted by
BunnyGirl19
How are everyone’s pregnancies going? Just thought I’d give a little update on myself. We conceived again our first cycle trying after the miscarriage (from BD on Christmas) and found out last week we’re having twins!! I’m so excited; it’s my second set of twins!
Awwww double congratulations xx
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February 28th, 2021, 03:35 PM
#583
Dreamer
Pretty quiet group with all the opposites how is everyone doing?
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February 28th, 2021, 08:17 PM
#584
Originally Posted by
polaris.kai
Pretty quiet group with all the opposites
how is everyone doing?
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Hey, doing fine! 25 weeks today.. time is flying by. How have you been?
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February 28th, 2021, 08:17 PM
#585
Originally Posted by
BunnyGirl19
How are everyone’s pregnancies going? Just thought I’d give a little update on myself. We conceived again our first cycle trying after the miscarriage (from BD on Christmas) and found out last week we’re having twins!! I’m so excited; it’s my second set of twins!
Congratulations
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April 4th, 2021, 03:13 PM
#586
Dream Vet
How are everyone’s pregnancies going? I’ve now made it to 16 weeks and the twins are still growing well and we haven’t detected any developmental issues so far. I’m finally starting to relax a bit and starting to plan lists of what I’ll need once they are born. I still can’t can’t quite wrap my head around being pregnant again, let alone with twins. I had pretty much given up on ever having more after my string of issues last year.
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April 4th, 2021, 11:11 PM
#587
Dreamer
Originally Posted by
BunnyGirl19
How are everyone’s pregnancies going? I’ve now made it to 16 weeks and the twins are still growing well and we haven’t detected any developmental issues so far. I’m finally starting to relax a bit and starting to plan lists of what I’ll need once they are born. I still can’t can’t quite wrap my head around being pregnant again, let alone with twins. I had pretty much given up on ever having more after my string of issues last year.
That is so great to hear!!! I am so happy for you
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April 8th, 2021, 01:39 AM
#588
Hello beautiful mamas,
How you all are doing? I am
Also 31 weeks and can’t believe I am almost near to hold my beautiful baby in my arms. How’s pregnancy going on with you all?
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April 22nd, 2021, 02:37 PM
#589
Dreamer
I know this forum isn't really active anymore but I just have to type this out somewhere. I know it's mostly hormones and that I shouldn't let it affect me but damn do people really get to me.
We haven't told anyone the gender even though we know and wow do people suck. I hate having to defend that if baby # 3 is a girl (which it is) that there is nothing wrong with all girls, that our family isn't missing something or that I am not a failure for not giving my husband a son. I feel like I get to the point of accepting it and ready to meet her as I am excited for my two girls to have another sister and be apart of that bond (not that a boy wouldn't have just as strong as a bond with them). And then someone has to make a comment and bring our family down.
I know people do it about everything because for some reason pregnancy and kids is open season for inappropriate comments but I really need it to stop. I've distanced myself from so many people because it's really hurtful hearing about how we need a boy like our girls aren't enough or how I'm a failure because my poor husband might not ever get his son. Trust me, I'm aware but it's not something we can control so I don't understand this mentality. Don't even get me started on the "boy mom" trend. I've heard from so many so called boy moms that I'll never know love unless I have a son and it's awful. Another woman told me yesterday she prays to God that her second doesn't end up being anothrr girl but it would be funny if we had another girl. I don't understand and it really cuts deep because even though I would love to have a boy, I love my girls fiercely and it sets me off hearing people imply they aren't enough.
Thanks for letting me rant
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April 23rd, 2021, 11:40 AM
#590
Swaying Advice Coach
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I don't know what "boy moms" you're talking to because we all hear the same thing - we'll never know love till we have a girl, yadda yadda. I often wonder if people even MEAN any of this stuff - it is more that they just look around, trying to come up with something to use against you, and settle on that just because it's there.
People need to stop with the comments. Sometimes I feel like women who are married with children are basically considered the lowest of the low, the last group of people it's "ok" to put down, criticize, mock, belittle, etc. Everyone else has some sort of organized movement behind them, but not us, because we're too busy trying to run our families to have time to stand up for ourselves.
These people are not worth your time. They're really, truly beneath you. (I mean, I can't even IMAGINE being the type of person who prays for a good outcome for themselves and yet takes pleasure in another person not having a good outcome?? That is a pretty sick mentality!
There are SO many people on this site who would love to have the exact family makeup you do. So many people are looking at you with jealously and wanting what you have, so many people think you have the perfect family. Even though right now you aren't hearing those people, I promise they do exist in droves.
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Not sure where to ask not TTC