I've lost the baby

[Boymomsrock]

Awful news...I'm so so sorry.

[hopingforsaskia]

I'm so very deeply sorry... Sending lots of love xx

[Cinss]

Sorry 3boys

[OneLastDream]

So very sorry xx thinking of you and sending huge hugs xx

[Lassie1982]

So very sorry for you

[Tiffani3]

I'm so so sorry xx

[Mum23boys]

Oh hunny what awful news - Am so sorry for you - i dont know what else to say. Big hugs to you

[3boys]

Thank you so much everyone. The hospital dont know if they can fit me in for a D&C this side of Christmas. Which means I've got to potentially miscarry naturally on Christmas day (can you imagin how horrendous) and the worse part is I look pregnant so I've got to suffer looking and feeling pregnant while everyone else celebrates. I can't believe this has happened twice in a row I feel like there is something wrong with me. Apparently they will not test the baby Until you've had three miscarriages so I will never know why he's heart just suddenly stopped. He looked just perfect last week. I just wish I had of been grateful for him instead of being so selfish about the fact he was a boy! I feel like a monster and the worse mother in the world. I look at my three boys and I feel like I have betrayed them also. I can't stop crying and I know I don't belong here on this due date group now

[Violet_]

Oh honey. I'm so sorry you are going through all those emotions. Such a sad thing to happen. I really hope they fit you in before Christmas. It's a really tough time of the year to go through this. Not that anytime would be easier then another. I'm sure you are just a wonderful mother and it's just one of those things that happen, I'm sure it's not your fault in any way! Cry as much as you need to. When you feel a little more up to it. Perhaps you could organize some kind of counselling to get all those feelings out and try to make sense of it all.

[Pearl327]

What terrible news 3boys. I am so sorry for you loss. I know it is difficult but please do not blame yourself or your thoughts on this as it is not your fault. ((Hugs))

In Ireland they do not do any testing until you have had 3 miscarriages either. But a friend of mine got testing done after two in a row. She is 40 and played the age card and I know she had to fight to get the tests done as she also has 1 large and 2 small fibroids and they told her that the fibroids were most likely causing the miscarriages but they did the tests anyway. So maybe talk with the hospital again and see if there is anything that they can do.