I've lost the baby

[Tiggerian]

I am so sorry for your loss =( It really isn't fair - especially just before Christmas!!

[rainbowflower]

so sorry for your loss
I had a MMC and lost the baby at around that stage a few years and remember how traumatic it was, so thinking of you and your family

[Kittybear]

So, so sorry for your devastating loss :'( I cannot imagine how you feel right now or offer any real words of support but it is truly not your fault. You are a great mum. Best wishes to you and your family x x x

[Bimby]

Im so sorry to read of your loss I hope the hospital can sort something out for you before christmas x

[Another princess]

I am so so sorry x

[Mbmk]

Oh that is horrific :-( I am so sorry for the loss of your precious baby boy. Please do not blame yourself of your feelings - none of this is your fault.

Be kind to yourself and rest up. I hope the hospital can squeeze you in before Christmas - that is not fair.

Don't feel like you have to leave this group, I'm sure we would all love to be here for you to chat and support you in whatever happens next xxx

[Pangea]

I'm so sorry. I hope they manage to fit you in for the D&C quickly.

[Rainbow baby]

So sorry to here about your baby!!! Not a nice thing to have to go trough. I have said this before you really don't know what you want until it is gone. I felt the same way when my baby passed. Just be gentle on yourself, everything you are feeling is normal, I had them thoughts too. This is not what you wanted and is not your fault! Time hasn't healed but it sure has made it easier and life worth living again! We had all the testing done and guess what came back as nothing was wrong. Even if you have all the testing on little one you don't always get an answer and now I wish I never put his little body trough all that! Can you ask them to run tests on you blood tests for blood clotting disorders and so forth? Maybe that may help ease your mind if you decide to try again. I hope all this is sorted for you before Christmas. You and your family are in my thoughts...stay strong mama! <hug>

[weeziewoozles]

You cannot blame yourself. Feeling GD would have made absolutely NO difference. It was a natural feeling for you and nothing to be blaming yourself for. Losing the baby is so sad but the body only lets go if something is wrong. It may have been the heart had a problem for example so he wouldn't have made it. Do you see what I mean? Our bodies are AMAZING at making babies, it's a miracle that it happens at all, and sometimes the body can see that something is wrong and lets go. So we have to learn to let go too. Sending you lots of love over Christmas. Enjoy your wonderful boys over Christmas and don't feel that you have let them down AT ALL! x

[Justjessica]

That's terrible news. I am so so sorry to hear that. It's nothing you did or thought so please try not to blame yourself. My heart goes out to you.