Need a little cry !!! GD rearing its head

[aroundtheworld]

But Mum23Boys, you very well could be carrying a girl, right? You haven't had a scan yet, have you?

[Mum23boys]

I have and we didnt see a nub BUT we were carrying Fraternal twin and the tech told us that likelyhood was they were boy girl and she told us that Boy embryos are generally stronger than the girls so 70-30 chance we have the boy

[Pumpkin2011]

Mum23boys there is no way the tech could have known if you were carrying BG, BB or GG twins! That's really insensitive to say something like that just going by statistics. Don't pay attention to what she says. You may very well be carrying a little girl.

[rainbowflower]

I have and we didnt see a nub BUT we were carrying Fraternal twin and the tech told us that likelyhood was they were boy girl and she told us that Boy embryos are generally stronger than the girls so 70-30 chance we have the boy

not to go against what a specialist says.. BUT it's the opposite that has been proven time and time again, that it's girls that are the strongest. That's why in times of war or conflict it's the boy foetuses that are miscarried and why the sex ratio of babies born is predominantly female

[fish2012]

hey hun,

right what rainbow flower said that's the whole idea of the LE diet, ignore her that's just a daft thing to say they could have been GG, or BG and you could have sadly lost the B or indeed they could both have been boys. Don't tourture yourself over it twins wasn't meant to be this time around but you have a healthy baby in there, who could well be your dd.

could you get a private scan at 16weeks? you must be nearly there now xx

[aroundtheworld]

I am in complete agreement with the others... there is just no way to know for sure outside of a good scan or birth. You have just as much reason to hope as anyone else. Try to keep your head up- you could very well be carrying a little girl and will meet her soon!

[Mum23boys]

Thanks ladies. Im in a bit of a spin about whether to find out - Will start a new thread aout it so let me know what you think. x

[Justjessica]

Hope you are feeling a bit better now Mum23boys