Please help me decide

[Wanting-a-girl]

Good luck and I look forward to an update! Are you waiting till birth?

[Justjessica]

Good luck and I look forward to an update! Are you waiting till birth?

I'm going to try. I would love a surprise as I haven't had one before and this is my last chance but I strongly suspect I will probably have a look a week or 2 before if I start to panic about my reaction but I really, really hope I can do it. Fab profile pic btw - what a gorgeous little fella.

[Wanting-a-girl]

Ya I feel the same But I have three boys and I know I will not be upset at all with a boy but it might be like ripping off a baindaid as this is def my last baby... DH is getting fixed after this babe I was planning on not finding out at the beginning and now I really dont think I can

[Justjessica]

Ya I feel the same But I have three boys and I know I will not be upset at all with a boy but it might be like ripping off a baindaid as this is def my last baby... DH is getting fixed after this babe I was planning on not finding out at the beginning and now I really dont think I can

Good luck with whatever you decide

[Mum23boys]

Wanting a girl Im the same as you With 3 boys ( one with autism and dyspraxia amoung other things ) and although i feel this is a boy and although dh is desperate for a girl and we did sway I cant ever see myself being disspointed at birth when i see his little face. My heart might drop a little bit but it wont last more than a minute of 2 where as if i know in advance i think the dissapointment would last longer and get to me so id rather wait till he is born and know that the love ill feel will outweigh any other feelings.
Like you this is also our last baby and DH is getting "done"
I really hope we both get our daughters.