Results 11 to 20 of 787
-
January 20th, 2014, 05:56 PM #11
-
January 20th, 2014, 08:10 PM #12
I'm sorry you didn't hear girl jmm0616!! I truly think no matter how hard we try to protect and prepare ourselves, we're never ready to hear the opposite gender!! Don't apologize for being down!! We're all here to support you! I have my gender scan on Saturday and I know if I hear boy, I'll be crushed. Unlike you, I have very high expectations of a girl, even though I tried so hard to convince myself it's a boy. Your disappointment will get better with time hun!! HUGS!
-
January 20th, 2014, 09:36 PM #13
Jmm0616- so sorry!! Praying that you find peace with your news soon...and that little boy is a dream child for you and the perfect fit for your family! Hugs!
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkDS1 2009
DS2 2011
DS3 is here and precious as can be
-
January 20th, 2014, 11:03 PM #14
Jmm0616, I'm sorry that you found out your baby is not a girl. How sad
It is good that we have this board for support for GD to help us through the loss of the hoped for gender.
-
January 21st, 2014, 02:41 AM #15
Jmm0616 ... So sorry to hear of your pain, I understand how you feel, we got DS4 news on Xmas eve and it was tough Xmas to get through and we still haven't told anyone about being pregnant and won't be revealing sex until birth ... Surprise it's another boy!!! It does get better my GD with #3 was terrible, I didn't get out of bed and cried for 3 days before I cried a little less each day ... That little man is now so scrumptious I can't imagine even a second without him. As we all know it's not about the children we have .. It's about he desire for the opposite. I find I still have good and days and sometimes I think we were crazy for trying for # 4, we should have done HT but that is difficult in AU. Unsderstand your pain and loss and unlike friends and family who don't understand, we certainly do. Take care of yourself and take the time to deal with it on your own way
-
January 21st, 2014, 06:06 AM #16
Jmm, I am so sorry, I understand where you are coming from. I have everyone hoping and praying I get a girl but my gut tells me it's boy #3 for us and I feel like i will be disappoint everyone that has hoped and prayed we get our girl. From theories of the placenta from getting pregnant the first month after mirena it feels as though they want this as much as I do and I will end up upsetting them
2/04
11/05
11/09
06/14
-
January 21st, 2014, 06:14 AM #17
Well the bleeding only lasted 1 night and the next day it wasn't as bad as it was. I really think it's the hematoma dissolving itself and being expelled form my body which I guess is a good thing. I will be leaving for London in 2 weeks so I am hoping I get a good nub shot I have saved some pictures and info on my phone to show to them and hope they comply or else I will have to wait until February 25th at 15 weeks to find out what I am having :/
I am already dreading it, I feel my GD flaring up from time to time and I get too depressed and blame my husband for putting me in this situation and that's not a good thing2/04
11/05
11/09
06/14
-
January 21st, 2014, 07:38 AM #18
Grease monkey-glad to hear the bleeding is resolving and hopefully it's just something minor. Good luck with your scan.
Jmm-I'm sorry you are feeling down about hearing boy. We are all hear to listen and support for GD. Most of us have been through it. I had it during the pregnancy with DS3, once he was born and I held him in my arms I was over the moon happy with him. I think it's hard with the pregnancy hormones, that I think makes GD even worse. Glad to hear he is a healthy little guy!3 Beautiful Boys 742 and a little lady
My baby girl is here and we are so in love with her! Thank you gender dreaming for making my family complete!
-
January 21st, 2014, 08:23 AM #19Dream Vet
Hi Ladies,
I have also had the dreaded news i did not want. I realise now i should never have swayed and let Dh convince me it would work and try again after hi tec failed. I am completely devastated and unfortunately for me GD has never left me and i find raising my 3 boys really hard and not very satisfying, I just am sick of hearing stories about cowboys super heros, guns and X box. I really really do not think i can do this. I am the terrible mother who should not have been able to have any children as she cannot be happy with her lot. i just do not think i can do this again. All the pain of a 4th c section the loss of all hope makes me think everyone would be better off with out me and that i might find some peace 20 years is a long time to be disappointed and now i have potentially another 20 ahead. I would not wish anyone to feel like this. I hope those of you left get your hearts desire as no one should have to feel like this. I thought i could cope as its DH's first child, but in reality it just makes me hate him as yet again i allowed another man convince me to take a risk so they could have a child and he gets his DS and will never know how i feel.
-
January 21st, 2014, 09:45 AM #20
jmm & jen75 so sorry you both did not hear girl. ((hugs)) to you both.
Greasemonkey glad the bleeding has stopped hope the next few weeks are quiet for you!02 04 06 10 14
Similar Threads
-
June July August 2013 baby club
By Mum23boys in forum First Year ClubReplies: 122Last Post: September 22nd, 2014, 10:28 PM -
JUNE/JULY/AUGUST 2014 DUE DATE CLUB
By bunnywabbit in forum Due in June/July/August 2014Replies: 1048Last Post: January 19th, 2014, 06:15 PM -
Any Due Date buddies for May/June 2014??
By Dreamingof2girls in forum Due Date BuddiesReplies: 24Last Post: October 28th, 2013, 10:07 AM -
Confused? Main thread for June/July/August 2013?
By HopeandDreamG in forum Due in June, July, August 2013Replies: 6Last Post: October 7th, 2012, 08:16 AM
Hello everyone. I am new here but not new to swaying. I have 3 boys who are 7, 5 and 18 months old. I did not sway with my first two as I knew nothing about swaying and I wanted them to be boys...
Praying for a baby girl after 3...