Thread: Terrified for tomorrow
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December 2nd, 2013, 01:09 PM #1
Terrified for tomorrow
I'm 16 weeks (maybe 17 depending which ultrasound they use) and have a high risk appt tomorrow. We are asking to see gender and I'm terrified!!!! I'm almost not ready for the news but need it sooner then later. I had a dream Saturday night and it was a boy and I was devastated (I have no track record if dreaming the sex of my babies thought, maybe I was dreaming my fears). The other day shopping with 5 yr old DS and looking at baby clothes he insisted I buy the soft pink sleeper for his sister and insist he knows it's a girl....I asked him what if it's a boy and he said we can take it back -lol. He's not going to be the only heart broken one if it's a boy. I think our families are really all hoping pink too and tomorrow is my nana and aunts bday (my aunt practically raised me!) and I can't help but think what a good bday present it would be but then trying to tell myself nope it's a boy stop getting your hopes up!!!
I am one of four ppl I know due April/may/June that all have two boys ages 3-7 and so far there is one confirmed girl and one confirmed boy.....
This mind game and desire is horrible!!!!!!!! After we failed all our ivf pgd I hope we made the right choice....so scared and doubtful right now....
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December 2nd, 2013, 01:35 PM #2
Just wanted to say GL I hope you get the news you want to hear
Sept 2008 & successful boy sway June 2010.
M/C Oct 2012
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I really hope the baby is healthy and you get to see pink tomorrow! Good luck!
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December 2nd, 2013, 02:42 PM #4
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December 2nd, 2013, 03:49 PM #5
Good luck tomorrow
two gorgeous boys
And a beautiful little girl
Our sway worked!!!
Thanks atomic and all at GD X
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December 2nd, 2013, 04:16 PM #6
Good luck hun!!
xxx2009 2012 due Apr 2014
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December 2nd, 2013, 04:41 PM #7
I was heartbroken when I heard ds3. Felt so down during pregnancy and not bothered. Till he came out onto my chest and I fell deeply in love. He holds an extra special place. Maybe don't find out and accept we can't change things
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December 3rd, 2013, 04:25 AM #8
Best of luck!
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December 3rd, 2013, 08:02 AM #9
Good luck & I hope you hear PINK!!!! Looking forward to an update
DS 17
DS 10
DS 4
DS 2
DS 5m
pregnant now & was in no way ttc
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December 3rd, 2013, 09:55 AM #10
Thanks all
Well all that anxiety for a stubborn baby. Baby was breech and had legs closed and cord between legs so they weren't comfortable guessing and I didn't want to hear something wrong. Certain angles looked three lines girl then others looked like nub or was it cord? So now we wait a few more weeks
You can skull guess if you want
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