I have never really thought about the number of my children, I just assumed I will get a girl and then I see, maybe just one, maybe two, maybe more....having two boys and no girl made me think about the total number eventually and I have decided to have 3. Firstly I was totally scared, angry that I have to have more children to get a girl but also looking forward to another baby - mixture of feelings and fears. I am now before the HT route and I am totally OK with having 3 kids (if one is girl), but it took little time to enjoy this idea. Will I have three kids if HT won't work? I do not know, probably not, but who knows?If you have time, wait and see. If you do not - as me- just do your pros/cons, hope it will help to decide....