Thread: So scared of my 20 week scan
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June 29th, 2013, 06:06 AM #1
So scared of my 20 week scan
I'm 13.2weeks and have had 100% girl nub guesses from my 12.4 (measuring 12.2) but I am getting bad anxiety and just freaking out I'm having my third boy. Of course I will be happy with another sweet boy but I just want a girl to complete our family so there's no what ifs. . I just need need to prepare and be pleasantly surprised if its my girl. Ugh
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June 29th, 2013, 07:17 AM #2
Hi. I am feeling very similar! I had a scan at 11 weeks but got no photo and could see no nub or bumps to report on so i find myself looking at pics on the net to compare!! Driving myself mad! The fear i feel sometimes is actually overwhelming and for the most part my feelings are negative and thats just not even my personality!! I am not finding out at 20 weeks as feel i would not cope well if i hear boy...need to prolong it as long as i can and get my head in a better space. Please...dont misunderstand...i love my two boys more than i can say but i honestly believe life without a daughter is a much more lonely journey and you miss out on that companionship that the mother-daughter relationship brings.
Everywhere i go i see mums with their girls...it makes me so sad sometimes and i feel the loss already!! I have had two dreams of having a girl but one of a boy so of course because i am feeling so negative i focus on the boy one :-(
I am so grateful having this forum to talk and swayed for a long time before getting pregnant on this baby..it was tough and i was very thin...i would do it forever if i could just get a girl!! It would be worth it :-)
Best of luck to you and i think its a super good sign you got all girl guesses- it seems these guesses are quite accurate!
Xxx
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June 29th, 2013, 02:13 PM #4
Kate u got nothing to worry about.. I bet thats a girl ur baking!!! Goodluck
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June 29th, 2013, 07:51 PM #5
Thanks girls, i think im gonna have some time out from the inet to avoid obsessing x capegrace i hope you get your girl xx
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June 29th, 2013, 08:35 PM #6Dream Vet
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DPs sons 21 +13 11 + our 6 4 year old identical twins!
I might actually be over my deep yearning for a and it's an exciting feeling
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June 29th, 2013, 11:25 PM #7
Huds are we due the same day?? Jan 2nd??
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due Jan 2nd 2014!!! Yay my GIRL
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June 30th, 2013, 01:42 AM #8
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June 30th, 2013, 07:58 PM #9
So funny they changed me to then too but i changed myself back!
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