Thread: Is it bad.... Little Update.
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January 8th, 2012, 07:25 PM #1
Is it bad.... Little Update.
That I hope she has a girl, but only for my sake.
I've always wanted two boys. Well, all through my life I must of done something wrong cause it never goes the way I want it. I now have two girls.
My SIL is about 7/8 weeks pregnant. She's always wanted a girl. But I can't but help feel that she's gonna have a boy! Because towards me lifes a bitch lol.
If she has a boy I will be crushed. She really wants a girl and inside I really really really hope she has a girl not just for her sake but more for me as I know my heart will just break if its a boy.
Sorry I just had to get that out.Last edited by hpjagged; February 14th, 2012 at 04:10 PM.
One awesome daughter. with another dudette. Maybe a son one day.
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January 8th, 2012, 07:28 PM #2
No need for apologies! I've been in your shoes before, secretly hoping people in my life would have boys because I would be so envious and jealous is they had girls. Don't feel bad!
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January 8th, 2012, 08:27 PM #3
I was in your shoes this time last year but reverse - I have two amazing boys and desperately want a DD to complete my clan. My brother and his wife had their first child last Feb. She wanted a girl, my brother wanted a boy. Drove me crazy that they knew but wouldn't tell anyone what they were having. I prepared myself to hear girl, and I can't describe the relief when I heard they'd had a boy. They asked me to be godmother as well so I was doubly relieved as I would of struggled with that as I miscarried my HT daughter a few weeks after my godson's birth.
Hoping your SIL has a girl doesn't make you a bad person - just human. Hope it is a girl!Step (17)
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Cycle 2 (Genea): ER 8 July 2011 (after 10 wks on DHEA). 9 eggs, 5 fertilised w/ ICSI, 2 embryo's sent for aCGH day 6 biopsy. 29 July - both normal XX's!!!
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January 8th, 2012, 10:23 PM #4Dream Vet
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January 8th, 2012, 11:34 PM #5
Jagged I feel the same as you. Like everything i want I never get.. As horrible as this sounds when my sister was pregnant with her 2nd I secretly prayed she would have another boy, but nope she had a girl (of course)
I hope your SIL has a girl for your sake as well18 15 11
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January 9th, 2012, 04:54 PM #6Big Dreamer
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people who i like i hope they get whatever they want in life. people who annoy me, I hope they get what they deserve Whether that be the gender they want or the job the want or anything else
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February 14th, 2012, 04:08 PM #8
A lil' update. Sister in law is now around 12 weeks. She had a scan and the doctor said 80% its a boy in there. I actually feel alright about it, I'm just annoyed because the scan she showed us, I totally think looks like a girl haha. Not because I want her to have a girl, I genuinly think its a girl lol.
One awesome daughter. with another dudette. Maybe a son one day.
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March 22nd, 2012, 02:35 AM #9
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