wow we have so much in common, right down to the first two looking their dads and the last one looking like us! just enjoy your little one while you can and TTC at the same time! you can always do both. Thats what im doing anyway, also i have the same fears about swaying as you, in fact i am not even going to bother with it. I wont feel bad if i end up with a girl or have any regret about not swaying because i just dont believe in it.

We are right now TTC number 4 and i desperately hope for a boy, but i would be ok with a girl. its not like i dont want another girl, its that i want to experience a son and one more is IT for us!

so go for it! and dont worry, youre not alone with your feelings! thats why this forum is here, dont you just love it!