Thread: Ultrasound woes. Ugh!
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February 14th, 2011, 10:45 PM #31
I just wanted to say, your baby has a beautiful profile in the ultrasound picture.
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February 15th, 2011, 02:43 AM #32
Im guessing by your reluctance to share that the tech thought boy? Your finding it hard to believe, right? I really hope so I hate the envelope thing, its too hard to believe without seeing the goods yourself. Will you be getting another scan for confirmation?
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February 15th, 2011, 08:25 AM #33
Ugh, really sorry you didn't get any answers. I would definitely bellieve what the tech says even without a picture (highly unlikely to be wrong unless the tech was clear that baby wasn't cooperating and it was just a guess). But I don't think you really want to stress the whole pregnancy. Will you get another ultrasound?
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February 15th, 2011, 09:27 AM #34Moderator
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Lilac, I know its not science and I don't want to add to your confusion/hope/disappointment but I'd say that your babies skull features look eyebrows over forehead, so boyish. Do you have any others????? I cannot beleive that the tech was so casual!!!! Can you re-book privately, would you want to??? Or are you going to wait for a final delivery room surprise!!!!!!!!! Ugh, you must be in limbo!
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February 15th, 2011, 11:05 AM #35
Here's the other pictures I have.
baby19a.JPGbaby19b.JPG
After a bad night last night I'm ready to talk about everything, but am going to wait until my DH goes to bed in a few minutes.
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February 15th, 2011, 11:35 AM #36Moderator
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Again skull guessing isn't a science b ut the top pic looks girly and he bottom boyish, flamin limbo grrr. Look foreward to 'speaking' late on. Would you pop into chat?
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February 15th, 2011, 11:53 AM #37
Well I cried myself to sleep last night and now I've been crying all morning.
The baby is a girl and I just don't want to accept it. I don't want to tell anyone, I don't want anyone to feel sorry for me. I don't know what to do right now. I don't want another girl.
Everyone is guessing boy based on what I told them, I don't want people to guess I'm having a boy. It breaks my heart. But I don't want them to know I'm having a 5th girl either.
I don't feel like I can be a good mom to anymore girls. I'm not even a good mom to the 4 I have. Their mood swings, crying, whining, screaming...everything drives me crazy!
And I won't try again. I've accepted this has to be my last try, and it's devastating. The thought of never having a son. It's too much to take right now. I never imagined this would be so hard.
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February 15th, 2011, 12:04 PM #38Moderator
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I'm sorry you didn't hear boy Was it for definate? It might not seem it now but she will be the light of your life soon
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February 15th, 2011, 12:10 PM #39
I don't know if it was definite. The tech didn't say anything, just gave us the envelope. She didn't ask what we already had or wanted. I was going to call and ask if we could get a picture of the gender, but the phone lines were busy this morning and sent me to message. Now I can't call because I'm crying too much. I don't know what to do. Find out for sure and get over it, or keep a small glimmer of hope there. I sware I saw boy parts and so did my husband, but now we just think it was wishful thinking.
I can't imagine having to put another baby in all those stupid girly outfits again. And having to get rid of all the boy stuff I have without getting to use it. How am I going to do this?
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February 15th, 2011, 12:14 PM #40IVF Advice Coach
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I'm so sorry you are hurting.
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