Thread: Ahhh... the "what ifs"
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December 25th, 2012, 11:37 PM #1
Ahhh... the "what ifs"
Ever since I found out DD was a girl, I knew I wanted to do HT for a boy. I have always desperately wanted a son. Every time I find out one of my friends are having a boy (which of course they all are), I reassure myself that soon I will make sure that I get my own baby boy. Then I started thinking about if it doesn't work! Will I ever get over this? Or will this be something that I have to deal with forever? I am far too scared to try naturally for a boy. I feel like the GD would be overwhelming if I had a second DD.
I have used the fact that I will be doing HT make me feel better now. I guess I am just scared if it doesn't work... how will I ever be able to cope?One perfect born 7/11.
HT identical twin boys born 4/14
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December 26th, 2012, 02:40 AM #2
I know what you mean, the one main reason for being afraid of going HT is how I'll handle the disappointment if it doesn't work. Scary! GL to you at least
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December 26th, 2012, 09:22 AM #3Swaying Advice Coach
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It can get better over time even if you don't get your DG. I was doing better with GD before I ever got DD and even thought quite seriously over swaying for a 5th boy instead.
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December 28th, 2012, 11:53 AM #4
I'm here at the minute! What if I carry on ttc for a girl and I have a 6th boy (7 with our boy in heaven) and my GD drives me into a really bad place. Also what if we get our DG because of all the changes that have happened since DS 6 like all of the weight I've lost and diet changes but I'm too scared of my GD to keep trying??
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