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    Quote Originally Posted by zibibbogirl View Post
    . Maybe instead of saying how rude she is, HWP should just say "Hmmmm jealous much?"
    Or just the "look" (you know the one with the blank expression and maybe a raised eyebrow or two), a big sigh, a little shake of the head, then walk away. Usually gets the message across.
    She's toxic, avoid if at all possible.
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    Cycle 1 HRC in June 2011- cancelled cycle, no response at all.
    Cycle 2 at SART start stims Oct 10th Another cancelled cycle. No response.
    Cycle 3 at SART, started stims Dec 31st, cancelled AGAIN.
    Cycle 4 Donor eggs in South Africa May 2012, freezing and shipping to USA for PGD
    FET- 19th July- NT (only 2 normals, both boys)
    Cycle 5 Last shot- donor eggs at Genesis- Cyprus using his sperm sort, Jan 2013 BFN
    FET Feb 2013 BFP Miscarriage @ 6 wks.
    FET June 2013. On metaformin now for Insulin resistance. Mental health starting to border on insanity now. BFN
    FET July 2013. Last embie BFN

    Cycle 6 Really truly last shot- Donor eggs HRC, planned all freeze Feb, 7XX frozen immune treatment for me
    FET May 2014 BFP Miscarriage @ 8 weeks
    FET Nov 2014 BFP Miscarriage @ 12 weeks
    FET Oct 2015 BFP Blighted ovum confirmed @ 8 weeks. Miscarriage.

    SURROGACY!!!!! FET 1xx Feb 4th BFP, HB seen

    My precious baby girl arrived Oct 19th 2016

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    That woman needs to mind her manners, I think I would have asked her to leave. The annoying comments don't stop even after you have an opposite, the number of times I am told how lucky I was to have a girl after 2 boys!!!! Really????? I thought I was lucky three times to have three healthy, beautiful children You sound like an amazing mum to me with such a grateful attitude no matter what the gender of your fourth child is. All the best for a happy and healthy pregnancy x
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    My DD Harper Shae was born on the 27th Feb 2012 weighing 6lb 1oz

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    IMO she has GD herself. Next time you can ask her if she wants to try again to get a boy lol and tell her how lucky you are to have 3 mummy's boys

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    Yes, I agree! Turn it round and give her a taste of her own medicine!! Like a sweet, "And how about you? Are you going to try again, see if you can get lucky for a boy? I think you'd make a *fantastic* boy mum!" (insert as much sarcasm as you feel appropriate...)
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    Genesis Cycle #2 Apr 2017: 7 eggs retrieved, 6 fertilised, 1 normal XX (under 5-probe FISH), BFN
    Genesis Cycle #3 Jul 2017: 12 eggs retrieved, 7 fertilised, 3 normal XX (under 5-probe FISH) of which 2 transferred, BFN
    Genesis FET Oct 2017: 1 XX hatching blast transferred, BFN
    Clinic C**** Cycle #4 Mar 2018 2017: 16 eggs retrieved, 10 fertilised, 8 tested with PGD. 1 euploid XX, 1 mosaic XX.
    Clinic C**** FET Jun 2018 1 euploid XX transferred, BFN What is going on? Repeated no implantation

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    Sounds like she really wanted a boy and is projecting her own disappointment on to you. Bitter people are usually covering something painful. Not that this excuses her behaviour. Best you just ignore her silly remarks and be proud that despite your desire for a girl you are not hurtful to others and adore your boys!

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    That woman is awful. I am so sorry people can be so insensitive and rude, especially in front of your children. :/ you are 4times lucky! And I pray you will have the large beautiful family you desire.

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