Thank you so much for all your support guys, I really appreciate it. As it happens I went on holiday two days after I started this thread and I honestly feel much better for it now. We don't tend to see much of the brother in law, only my husband does when he's at work as they both work in their dad's family run business. My husband is far too polite to say anything and also I think he would rather suffer in silence than admit to his brother that he is jealous. We rarely see any of his family as none of them like me (tried to figure out why for years, gave up! lol their loss)

I'm beginning to get really excited for the little boy I will have in six months time. Looking forward to all the sleepy cuddles and the burping and feeding. Tiny tootsies and little hands So looking forward to it now. I doubt I would feel this much better this soon had I not been able to vent some of my feelings to your lovely selves, so once again, thank you so much for the support!