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October 24th, 2014, 07:32 AM #21Dream Vet
Have you started your own post chanel? You'll get alot more guesses, although that might not help you, certainly didn't me as I got mostly boy guesses. When do you find out? x
Edit - just seen you have got a post going! Lol. Sorry. Plenty of boy guesses tho! Fingers crossed. :-)Last edited by amo; October 24th, 2014 at 07:38 AM.
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October 24th, 2014, 07:53 PM #22
I have 2 sons. I secretly wanted a girl when pregnant with DS1 but didn't tell anyone. We didn't find out til birth & his gender affected our bond massively. I got pregnant again when he was 16 months old & I was pretty devastated when I found out DS2 was another boy. I found out at 18 weeks. I then made it my mission to fall in love with that babe no matter what. So I went to hypnotherapy & it was the best thing I've ever done. By the time he was born I was deeply - DEEPLY - connected & bonded with him. Not only that, it transformed my relationship with DS1. I'm pregnant for the 3rd time & I'm only 10 weeks but I strongly feel this will be another boy. If it is I will be back to hypnotherapy to bond with him again. Gender desire/disappointment absolutely STINKS but if this one is another little boy you can - & will - love your baby. xxoo
Darcy 10.4.2009 ⚓Eamon 4.07.2011⚓ Felix 15.05.2015
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November 2nd, 2014, 01:20 PM #23Dream Vet
5 weeks until 20 weeks mark but I still don't have my scan appointment!! Grr.
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November 2nd, 2014, 02:34 PM #24
Aww it will go super fast hunni, not sure yours is a defo boy either, go in thinking boy and if it's a girl you will have a super Xmas. Am doing so tomoro x
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December 1st, 2014, 04:08 PM #25Dream Vet
Finally got my scan appointment for the 12th and I'm kind of dreading it. I'm so convinced it's a boy so I won't be surprised if that's what they say but the thought if it being confirmed still makes my heart sink. I thought I was coming to terms with having another boy but I guess not as the closer this scan gets the more anxious I feel again.
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December 7th, 2014, 11:50 PM #26Big Dreamer
Amo, I know exactly how you feel. My doctor told me she was leaning boy at my 11 week appointment, and we will have an elective ultrasound on December 14th to find out the gender for sure. On the one hand, I am dying to know the gender, but on the other hand, I am convinced that i am going to hear "boy" again, so I am almost dreading going. Good luck on your scan and I hope you hear GIRL!!
Mom to (2013)
Got pregnant swaying pink on our 3rd try.
Fingers crossed for a on June 14, 2015
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December 9th, 2014, 12:07 PM #27Dream Vet
Thanks christi. I hope you hear pink too!!
xxxLast edited by amo; December 9th, 2014 at 12:13 PM.
Dec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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December 12th, 2014, 06:40 AM #28Dream Vet
Sonographer said she was 75% sure it was a boy. I went in being pretty sure it was a boy and feeling ok about it but I've got to say now I just feel numb. I don't want to feel like this but I just can't deny I don't want another boy, I'd rather not have another child at all. I hate myself for feeling like this and I just don't want to talk to or see anyone because no one understands, all my husband can say is we could try again but I cannot risk having three boys. I feel so angry and bitter and I'm dreading telling people and seeing that look of pity or disappointment in their eyes.
Right now I just want to disappear.Dec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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December 12th, 2014, 09:47 AM #29Big Dreamer
I'm so sorry, amo. I'm right there with you. I just heard essentially 100% that we are having a boy too (harmony test), so my dream of a daughter is gone too.
You don't need to tell anyone you don't want to about the gender until you are ready. Give yourself time to grieve. This too shall pass, in time. You are not alone.
75% is far from certain though. How far along are you?
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Got pregnant swaying pink on our 3rd try.
Fingers crossed for a on June 14, 2015
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December 12th, 2014, 12:43 PM #30Dream Vet
Thanks Christi and I'm so sorry to hear you didn't get pink either.
I'm 20 weeks + 5 days. She said the legs were crossed for most of the scan but when baby moved she thought she saw a little willy and I'm pretty sure I saw it to. I know 75% isn't 100% but I've just felt it's another boy and what with my classic nub shots and a 75% certainty from sonographer I just know it's a boy. I've booked a private scan for next week to find out for sure.
I honestly think if my sister in law is having a girl I'll be devastated.Dec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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