finding out at the birth?

[rainbowflower]

Thank you for your replies!

Taken a couple of days to ponder... leaning towards team tellow still, although would like to hear from more who got opposites. I know it's such an individual thing!

I remembered that with DS1 (had a girl preference) that when he was born it didn't even cross my mind to check to see what I had until my mum asked (she was a birth partner ) so it could be that way this time too, maybe

Thing is, I'm still having fun choosing names (just got the gun of picking two). We're in rented so not much I can do nursery wise but have been teaching myself to crochet and made the baby a lovely rainbow baby blanket so enjoying that (when energy levels permit!) I don't think I'm missing out so far on the fun planning bits. Refer to baby as "he" all the time though especially when he kicks or I hear his heartbeat so GD isn't overwhelming at the moment

[kitkat18]

Sounds like you are in a good space Rainbow to stay team yellow! There are so many lovely cool gender neutral nurseries and clothes! Xx

[rainbowflower]

I don't know.. had a dream last night that suggested I'm not fully at peace with team yellow yet

[Magical22]

You can always get them to write it on a piece of paper so when you are ready to know it's right there ️


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[trifecta]

I'm sorry you're not feeling as confident about it. I think magical's suggestion is a good one if you could resist looking. I would not have enough self-control in that area but that might be different for you.

[rainbowflower]

I don't think I'd be able to resist looking tbh, having it there would be too tempting and although I may book a 4D scan it'll be a basic one and non-gender checking anyway (they charge extra for that)