Now what?

[Zivic-Bubac]

I still think you have a chance of hearing boy, and I'll be praying that you do...but if you don't, I know this will be one amazing little girl .

That is so sweet of you, thank you!
I'm praying you hear the right answer next week!

[Zivic-Bubac]

Me too, meet you here in a year LOL Oddly I think I really do want a 4th child

That would be so cool!!!!!
Adoption is not an option for us bcos sadly the procedure is too long and you can't choose the gender
My DH doesn't know about my brilliant idea yet, I'll spare him until this bubba is 6mo or so

[Zivic-Bubac]

I hope you are doing ok, ZB!

I think I'm doing much better! All things you've said here makes sense and sometimes I believe I'd be OK with my 3 princesses

[Zivic-Bubac]

I've been there and it is hard. I know you can't see it right now but you will feel better.

Most people do not care what your family make up is. They really don't. They may say something stupid just to fill the air but they don't go home and think about you or pity you. They have their own lives to live so try to forget about what other people say or do.

Your girls will be a great unit and you have an awesome family. After DS my girls asked of we could have another sister! That's not happening of course but they are a tight unit and I'm sure yours will be too.

It gets better. Life is what you make it and there is so much good.

Thank you NBP, it makes sense. I do believe once she's here I'll feel much better.

My girls are thrilled they're having a sister, brother wasn't an option for them So at least my girls are totally happy which means a lot + DH says he would love another girl

[Zivic-Bubac]

I hear you on the pity too mocha, you should hear what people say to us about the idea of this being a 5th girl. Hubby and I are now very quick to put them in their place

I can only imagine....I have to learn ASAP to talk back lol!