Thread: This CAN'T be another girl
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April 14th, 2012, 10:51 AM #11
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'Let perseverance be your engine and hope your fuel.'
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(99) (04) (08) 4 x looking over us all.
Swayed but blessed with another
' There is only room for one Princess in this house'
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April 14th, 2012, 11:02 AM #12
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April 14th, 2012, 02:09 PM #13
Oh ZB. I quoted it because honestly, I pretty much was writing the same thing when I found out about DD3. Word for word. If I didn't write those exact thoughts on here at some point (though I bet if you look at my old posts I did) I thought every.single.one of them.
It gets better when they are here, like everyone says. But I bolded the part about "never supposed to be" because I STILL feel that way. I laugh about it now instead of cry about it though. I really do. This WAS NOT my dream. But it's my reality, and you know what? I'm choosing to love it. You have to have lows to appreciate the highs, and to be totally honest, if this, GD, is the lowest thing in my life I will TAKE IT. I bold "choose" because there are moments, several a day sometimes, that I focus on the wrong things. But when I focus on the important stuff I'm good. Everyone I love is healthy and here and WOW ... I have THREE kids! Who happen to all be girls The gender disappointment for me has faded to almost nil. I will hope and pray you get to say that one day too.
But gender desire? That I don't know how to ever get rid of, aside, of course, from having your DG. But like you I'm terrified to try again. But also sad NOT to have another baby, because I do like the idea of a big ol' group of 4 kids. We'll figure that out together, OK? Don't apologize for letting it out. I actually don't regret feeling how I felt about DD3 when I was pregnant. I'm not proud of it but I couldn't have handled it any other way. It was real, and it was honest, and I'm thankful I had a place to put it other than just my own heart. I'm glad you're sticking around. I think this place is a good place to be.
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April 14th, 2012, 02:49 PM #14
((((Hugs))))
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Had my first and only little girl Emmerson oct 19,2014 right on her due date!
Hoping I stop calling her 'little dude, bud' and him real soon
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April 14th, 2012, 03:26 PM #15
Thank you all so much, I really appreciate it! I keep re-reading your posts, THANK YOU!!!!
You're basically my only support ( besides for DD1 who is thrilled to have another sister )
Wantingson and wilma_five: I was thinking seriously about HT for #4....haven't mentioned it to DH yet....
I've found a private clinic pretty close to my town that do gender selection and it turns out we COULD afford it in a year or two with some serious saving plan, but it totally can be done. Price would be somewhere between 4000-5000 euros.
I want to kiss and hug each and every one of you
Begonia-thank you, I remember your posts....I so like it we'll figure out together our improved sway for lol!
Maybe use PreSeed next time?
m/c 2001
2003
2007
2012 failed sway
2014 my surprise baby
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April 14th, 2012, 04:01 PM #16Our long awaited is here!!!!!
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April 14th, 2012, 07:06 PM #17
Praying for you sweetie! You're not a bad person, you're normal! I completely understand! We love you. That baby girl will love you and her sisters. I say get angry. Allow yourself to be pissed at life. I did. But it did get better. It gets better every day. Hang in there. And start saving for HT!
and along the way.
Due with a after prayer and and slight swaying.
"It must take quite a man to knock the balls off a boy!"
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April 14th, 2012, 07:55 PM #18Dream Vet
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April 14th, 2012, 08:14 PM #19
I've been there - ds3 was a failed sway and dh announced he was done having kids. GD is horrible. I hope with all my heart you get your little boy someday
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April 14th, 2012, 08:25 PM #20
Congratulations! I am so happy for you now you can feel compeet!
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