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June 29th, 2016, 11:41 AM #31
i got pregnant this time first try with TBM / AI (using a syringe) i also swayed pink so only did 1 attempt and jumped and dumped after about 5 mins.
it lowers your chances if your adding things to the sperm to try and change ph but just using the syringe as a method of getting the sperm up there has the same success rates as normal intercourse so i wouldnt let it stress you out, the IG statistics arent of women who were doing at home AI (or TBM if you prefer to call it that) they are of women who were adding things to the sperm before inseminating to try and alter the ph which is a totally different thing..
i dont know what im having this time so i cant tell you if my sway worked or not but i can tell you i got pregnant first time with only 1 insemination, and atomic did mention on one of my posts that there have previously been 2 women on this site who used at home AI, both swayed blue with diet, exercise etc but due to using sperm donors they had limited insemination attempts.. both got pregnant and both got girls!!
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June 29th, 2016, 06:32 PM #32Swaying Advice Coach
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Hi and welcome! Glad you found us.
The warnings in this essay are directed at people doing tons of stuff to alter the pH and other characteristics of the sperm. It is a different scenario when you're just trying to do TBM for getting pregnant. I would not have you put lime juice and all the rest of it into the sperm sample you're using and just do the insemination, and then we will sway in other ways.
You can def. do the diet at upper limits of cals to prevent weight loss and that is what I suggest for you. You will still be swaying even if you do not lose any weight.
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June 29th, 2016, 06:34 PM #33Swaying Advice Coach
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June 29th, 2016, 10:46 PM #34
Thanks so much for your replies ladies! Very helpful, sorry I must have misread the first post, it was late here in Australia haha.
I'm very glad I have found this site to, we are really hoping for a girl but will be happy with a healthy baby! Trying to give our daughter a sister
I'm glad the TBM method doesn't reduce our risks of getting pregnant it had me worried there. Our last pregnancy took 2 years to conceive, I think there was an issue with the donor, hopefully with a new donor things won't take so long!
No I must find the girl diet and see how I can manage to make this work for me. I already skip breakfast but love my pasta..
Atomic could you link the girl diet please?K&S08DS 09DD 11DS 13 with Baby#4 due July 2017! Swayed for a GIRL
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June 30th, 2016, 02:10 PM #35Swaying Advice Coach
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Here it is!! You would aim at starting off at 1800-2000 cals and see how it goes, if weight comes off then up calories till it stops following basic tenets of the diet. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...l-version.html
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June 21st, 2018, 08:42 AM #36
Hi, looking for some updated info on TBM and ladies who have done this method for blue. I think pH doesn't sway so EW are not used anymore.? And Preseed?
I want to use it additional to normal BD. DH and I can't DTD during the day because of the kids but I want to add AM attempts to the night BD. So, that's why I'm learning this.
Can someone tell me if this is right:
version 1: I have DH do it into a moon cup (IC is too big to manage for me), then add preseed (how much?) and insert it. done.
As I think that the liquid could be to low in the cup to have contact with the cervix (or isn't that the case?) when standing up (can't lay down for long - kids..) wouldn't it be better to:
version2: Have DH do it into a clean glass, then suck it up with a syringe (should I add preseed here again to have greater volume?) and inject it somehow directly into the cervix opening... if that is even possible? maybe using a soft blunt cannula? like an embryo transfer for sperm of course not as far to have an IUI because I know that would be dangerous but only a little inside sorry for TMI. just trying to figure out how sperm transfer would be most effective lol
is anybody here crazy enough to have done something like that or even considering and wanting to share experience and thoughts?(thank you atomic!)
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June 21st, 2018, 10:15 AM #37Swaying Advice Coach
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Hey, i have an appointment today and have to leave in a couple minutes so could you please bump this for me???
I just want to be VERY sure that no one uses egg whites though. I think it's very likely that egg whites are causing miscarriages and I have an explanation of my concerns here in this thread https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...re-get-pg.html
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June 21st, 2018, 02:16 PM #38born 2017 after girl sway: AI + Clomid
born 2019 after girl sway. : AI + j&d (no Clomid)
Due #3 Nov 2020: AI + breastfeeding
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June 21st, 2018, 09:24 PM #39
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June 22nd, 2018, 02:09 AM #40
If you want a boy use a sperm friendly lube. Water actually is bad for sperm and will kill some of them off.
I found it to be simple and not need practice, but it couldn't hurt to practice if you feel unsure.
BTW, I was doing it to sway girl -- DH finished into a condom which also kills some sperm -- I was going to add lemon juice, but then chickened out on the lemon juice and just inserted the semen after it sat in a condom for about 10 minutes. I got a girl that way.born 2017 after girl sway: AI + Clomid
born 2019 after girl sway. : AI + j&d (no Clomid)
Due #3 Nov 2020: AI + breastfeeding
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Bump! :)
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