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August 21st, 2014, 01:21 PM
#11
Swaying Advice Coach
TEchnically a no-no, but as I mention in the essay, I don't think we know if orgasms are really even doing much for swaying anyway.
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August 21st, 2014, 01:27 PM
#12
Dream Vet
oh i hope not
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November 14th, 2014, 12:22 AM
#13
I had an O on my own about 10 hours before my single attempt ttc a girl. Did I blow it? I was depriving myself for days and couldn't hold off any longer. I didn't O during attempt though. Please help!
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November 15th, 2014, 02:01 PM
#14
Swaying Advice Coach
LOL I just linked this essay in a PM!
While this is a crystal ball q that I can't answer (I can't tell anyone if something is ok, or if they messed up their sway, I just don't know!) I can say that I personally did have an O with my attempt that yielded DD. And we have done tons of polls with responses all over the map on orgasms - many of the pink mamas always have them, some of the blue mamas don't, and while I think there is a trend in the general direction of boy moms being more "orgasm-y" it is with a great many, many exceptions and ~may~ be becasue many of the pink dads have somewhat lower sex drive and not anything different about the moms and their orgasms LOL
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April 2nd, 2015, 03:45 PM
#15
Swaying Advice Coach
bump since getting lots o Q's on this today
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April 9th, 2015, 12:50 AM
#16
Big Dreamer
I love this, its hilarious. Cried I laughed so hard.
So does a low sex drive in DH make more girls then? DH seems to have low t. He has not much drive these last 12 months. Getting worse.
And, for the record, while I have mostly been a one orgasm girl with all my kids, the weekend I got my only dd was our first weekend away after having ds1. We had a 3 day long orgy of sex, sex and more sex and I had 3 to 5 orgasms a day for 3 days, and got pregnant with a girl. I o'd 2 or 3 days later, I think 3 days after our last day away.
all my boys were one orgasm, o day.
Just had to throw my 2 cents in there, so I wont be holding back on account of gender. Thats one part of swaying I just dont want to subscribe to, its just no fun. On the other hand, my hormones are so bad I can't even o half the time anymore, so there may be no choice! LMAO!
Thanks for this wondeful essay. I should go masturbate until I go blind to get my girl maybe?!
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April 9th, 2015, 02:28 PM
#17
Swaying Advice Coach
Observationally, I have seen a STRONG trend in that direction where many of the blue swayers' husbands have a very difficult time with BD. I mean like having to skip months even because he can't manage even one time in fertile window. Whereas the boy dads are the opposite. Polar. Opposite. :/ I am having a "grass is always greener" moment. My husband has long maintained I am a frigid icebox because I only want to have sex 4x a week.
Thanks for sharing your experiences!!!
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April 9th, 2015, 10:54 PM
#18
Big Dreamer
Very interesting. I think that makes sense tho--a lower sex drive in a man would indicate lower T right? And does not lower T in dad= a girl more likely? DH can complete the transaction, but he is very happy with just once or twice a week. If I asked him for a 3 day orgy to get a girl like I did in the past, he would never be able to.
Our poor men, getting talked about like his online for the world to see!
Frigid indeed, I WISH i got it 4x a week! You poor poor hubby, how hard done by he is! You are no ice queen hun!!!!
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April 11th, 2015, 12:39 PM
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Swaying Advice Coach
That is one theory. Or, possibly, lower T levels may have no direct correlation, but that it is sperm count. Men with naturally high T have naturally high sperm count. I mention this because we have had several blue swayers whose husbands were on steroids and creatine and had T levels thru the stratosphere but still had all girls, possibly because these type of medications actually cause testicles to diminish in size and make for fewer and less healthy sperm.
Another theory is that maybe poor health may lead to lower sex drive and that may lead to poor sperm health (the T levels may exist independently)
Or, low sex drive tends to = one attempt, and since we know one attempt is getting good results for girls, may totally be coincidental.
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April 11th, 2015, 09:29 PM
#20
Just so everyone
Knows I accidently pressed dislike..... Total accident!!
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So happy for you Treens, congratulations Sent from my SM-A225F using Tapatalk
Healthy baby girl :)