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February 1st, 2014, 04:33 AM #1
Is this situation more girl friendly or boy friendly??
Hi everyone,
I've been absent for quiet some time. I've not really been back since the birth of my gender opposite boy.
Fast forward 9 months and we have a very accidental oops pregnancy.
We were going to have another baby, but I wanted a good chance at swaying again, which I feel somewhat robbed of now.
Anyways, I was wondering if you ladies could shed some light on wether you think my current circumstance favoured boy or girl.
2 boys, 9yrs and 9mnths
I'm 31, dh 45
I'm exclusively breastfeeding still. Alex hates solids so I'm still feeding 3 hourly around the clock.
My cycle returned 4 months post partum and has been fairly regular 29 day cycles.
We DTD once, on either on ovulation, or ovulation plus 1 day, maybe 2 (I'm not 100% certain on which day out of 3 I ovulated on)
I jumped and dumped.
It had been 7 days since last ejaculation
My diet was fairly healthy as I am nursing. Lots of fresh fruit and veg, healthy fats. Red meat 1-2 times a week.
I was taking supps for milk supply, fenugreek, brewers yeast and blessed thistle
I was exercising moderately.
Generally I'm in good health, I am a normal weight.
Hubby is also in good health and works out daily.
Obviously I know that it is what it is, but would love some opinions on which gender my situation favoured.
Thanks in advance
.Last edited by Lassie1982; February 1st, 2014 at 04:41 AM.
Mummy to DS10 who is the light of our world
Swayed took us 8 cycle's and I'm finally
Please be a sticky little bean, we have wished and hoped for you for so long xo
Our family welcomed a in May 2013 and thats ok, we're head over heels in love with him and feel blessed to be honoured with 2 sons
January 2014 - A little surprise that went to heaven before we could meet
October 2014 - Officially swaying for one last little bundle and wishing and hoping its a pink one
April 2015 - All our dreams have miraculously come true, our sway worked and our family will be complete with the little girl joining us in October this year
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February 1st, 2014, 05:29 AM #2
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February 1st, 2014, 05:42 AM #3
Think it's really 50%
Breastfeading and 1dtd and jump and dump favours girl.
Excersicing moderatly and healthy foods favours boy
Good luck and hope you get pink!
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February 1st, 2014, 09:26 AM #4Swaying Advice Coach
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Haha Lassie I was just thinking of you yesterday!!! Congrats!!!
It is ALWAYS possible to get a boy or a girl no matter what so please don't give up hope. In fact I think for some of us a "sneak attack" may sway pink more than a lot of other sway tactics do!
Close spacing between kiddos and breastfeeding may also sway pink. Eating healthy does tend to sway blue but then again I suspect if not for that you wouldn't ahve been able to get pregnant at all anyway.
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February 1st, 2014, 09:28 AM #5Swaying Advice Coach
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Oh yes forgot to mention this part! We've been getting 75% pink results with one attempt in fertile window.
Just to clarify so you know, there has never been a confirmed pregnancy from 1 day after ovulation, let alone 2, so you probably DTD on O day. (that is fine and studies have shown this is 50-50)!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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February 1st, 2014, 09:35 AM #6
NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Huge congrats! Apparently we are in the same boat...AGAIN as I am pg with an oops too!
I think your chances are good for girl. I look at how obsessive we were with POAS, charting, tracking diet, and swaying in general and I truly feel better about it this time around. I always wonder with DS2 and DS3 (even though they are my worlds) that maybe I altered my path by trying to force something so hard. Sometimes there is a higher plan out there and we just have to go with the flow!!(8) (6) (2) (1)
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February 1st, 2014, 01:06 PM #7
Ahhhhhh you're kidding!!!! What are the chances of us both being pregnant again at the same time, unbelievable!!!!!!! What a small world
Fingers crossed we've both got our little pink miracles
Will you be finding out? Is there a due date group?
And he's I agree about the stress in swaying that you and atomic mention, I know stress played a huge part when Alex was conceived.Mummy to DS10 who is the light of our world
Swayed took us 8 cycle's and I'm finally
Please be a sticky little bean, we have wished and hoped for you for so long xo
Our family welcomed a in May 2013 and thats ok, we're head over heels in love with him and feel blessed to be honoured with 2 sons
January 2014 - A little surprise that went to heaven before we could meet
October 2014 - Officially swaying for one last little bundle and wishing and hoping its a pink one
April 2015 - All our dreams have miraculously come true, our sway worked and our family will be complete with the little girl joining us in October this year
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February 1st, 2014, 01:22 PM #8
I am going to do what I did last time with a secret u/s. what about you?
I created a due date thread in the due date buddies forum! I'm so glad we're going through this together!(8) (6) (2) (1)
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February 1st, 2014, 05:06 PM #9
Congratulations ladies I think it sounds 50/50 but hope you have a pink bundle ) xx
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February 1st, 2014, 06:33 PM #10
NCBeachy and Lassie - weren't we all TTC and then in due date groups together last time? I AM SO JEALOUS YOU BOTH HAVE OOPSIE BABIES! Hahaha! I haven't gotten my cycle back yet, but I don't know why I'd want to do all that again... but you guy's are making me want to join in on the oops train!
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