Personal question for girl mom's

[pinkdreams]

I was reading the thread about how girl mom's got their girls. I notice that virtually everyone DTD daily either from AF to O or around O time. If you wouldn't be too embarrassed to add... what about "the big O" wold you say you often big O or are more likely not too? I for some reason really feel that not big Oing is important, just wondering if my suspicion is founded. Thanks so much for anyone willing to share!

[Coccinelle33]

I was doing it after dh when I got my dd.

[pinkdreams]

I was doing it after dh when I got my dd.

hmmm, interesting. this is not the first time I have heard this! Thanks so much!!

[TTC5]

Hardly ever for me!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

I have seen this q come up a couple of different times now and there is somewhat of a trend that girl moms seem to O less often and with more difficulty than the boy moms do BUT there were tons and tons of exceptions on both sides. I don't think anyone's sway is wrecked if they want a boy and can't/don't O or if they want a girl and do O.

I know for a fact that I didn't O when I conceived DS 1 and I suspect I didn't with DS 4!!

[Zivic-Bubac]

Hardly ever for me!!!

Same here!

[pinkdreams]

I don't mind not having an O , but my last attempt I didn't even "really" DTD. DH took care of it then "deposited" the goods shallowly. This next cycle I am planing on possibly DTD daily and would like to make it more interesting for him but I was just trying to gage if it is the actual DTD or the big O that could foul up my sway.

[Zivic-Bubac]

We did 'real' DTD lol when TTCing both girls ( not shallow etc) but no big O for me that's for sure.
I think that's not crucial, just stick to the pink diet

[atomic sagebrush]

I don't mind not having an O , but my last attempt I didn't even "really" DTD. DH took care of it then "deposited" the goods shallowly. This next cycle I am planing on possibly DTD daily and would like to make it more interesting for him but I was just trying to gage if it is the actual DTD or the big O that could foul up my sway.

CW says that DTD will raise pH...but then again the simple fact is most of the baby girls ever born/conceived were done the old fashioned way...I seriously doubt Joan of Arc's parents conceived her using a turkey baster and lime juice.

[pinkdreams]

Thanks!