frequency of BD for pink and blue

[Proud26]

Thanks for the advice x

[atomic sagebrush]

^^^Also I forgot to mention with your husband's job of being a personal trainer I would not use LR for him anyway as it may cause physical changes to his ability to store muscle vs. fat and would be detrimental to him

[Saartje]

Hi Atomic, i'm 30years old and my husband is 35 years old. We have a big wish for a girl after having two boys...
I have one problem: i just cant find my ovulation and my cycle is very irregular (28days, 36 days, 30days and 36 days) What is your advice about frequency of BD pink? I really hope you can help me. Thanks!

[atomic sagebrush]

I would have you guys BD unprotected every 4 days. This method has been quite effetive for us (75%)

[Saartje]

Thank you for your quick response Atomic!
Is BD every 4 days enough or should i use Represh before every BD? (My PH is 4) Or does my husband has to ejaculate before BD to reduce sperm? We had or boys by having BD every 2 days.
Thans you for helping me Atomic.

[atomic sagebrush]

It is up to you if you want to add either or both of those things. They do cut odds of conception and neither have seemed very helpful (RepHresh in particular appears to do nothing) BUT if you want to add them the first month or two, you can do that and always drop them later.

[sa76]

Hi Atomic, I'm not sure what to do. I am 35 and DH is 39. We have two boys - got pg very quick (second month of TTC). Last year in september we BD every day in my fertile window, got pg and had a mc (didn't know about swaying that time). Doctor said baby was not growing since week 9 of pg. This month we want to try again, but now I'm not sure what the best method for "pink" would be. Some times I o at CD 14, sometimes at CD 16, there was a month I oed at CD 20. So as I said DH is 39, how about DTD every day or abstain when I don't know when I will o - I'm afraid of making it worse and not getting pg because of "less or bad" sperms. Can you please give me a advice. Thank you!!!
Oh, and what is e4d, just asking because I have read a post and I am not sure if I understand right... Thanks once more!

[atomic sagebrush]

What I'd do in that case is either have your husband release every 2-4 days and then have one attempt at positive OPK, or else have unprotected sex every 4 days starting after AF ends and going thru till when you're sure you've ovulated.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[sa76]

Thank you. So we can start to try again. New year, new luck ��

[sa76]

Aaaahhhh, I'm totaly freaking out! We bd last week on tuesday, then saturday night - It was more sunday morning when I came home from a party at four in the morning. And niw, this morning I had abpositive opk. Should we do one more attemt today or tommorow or do you think it was enough on saturday/sunday morning??? Aaahhh - help please ��