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August 23rd, 2018, 07:12 PM #231Swaying Advice Coach
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This is a TMI-free zone.
He could release on his own or you could do other things besides intercourse (if u see what I'm saying here) It doesn't need to be intercourse for this to count.
That having been said, the good news is, daily release has not been very helpful at all anyway. It hasn't worked and doesn't appear to be adding anything to the overall success of the site (indeed, it's actually lower success rates than the overall site as a whole - this doesn't mean it sways blue, just that it's not likely adding anything) And it also really cuts odds of conception. So this may be something to try for the first month, possibly two and then drop anyway.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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September 5th, 2018, 07:51 AM #232
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September 6th, 2018, 10:07 AM #233Dream Newbie
Hi Atomic!
Thank you for the reply. I read this a while ago, but now have a follow-up question. I found another essay thread post of yours last night with updated BD sway tactics (at least I think it was the most updated one). For trying to sway girl, you emphasized the one attempt. One of the options you gave for this was an abstain and then the one attempt at around O-2, O-1. Since we have a 2-year old toddler, an abstain method would be easiest for us - if we had a night of a tricky bedtime or were just unable to BD, I'm afraid missing a night would ruin a FR attempt. But I've read other comments of yours that abstain lowers sperm quality, so this piqued my anxiety radar. My husband and I are both 32, and more than anything just want to ensure a healthy pregnancy. I would love to get more feedback on this. We're hoping to TTC around Dec, so we have time to figure out a sway tactic. Also, I've been trying to find out what the plan options are and costs, but haven't had much luck. Is there a breakdown of that somewhere? Thanks!
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September 6th, 2018, 02:42 PM #234Swaying Advice Coach
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Well, EPO, B vitamins, and many of the herbs may delay or stop ovulation.
I would keep testing for ovualtion and prepare to make attempts if you have a positive OPK. Even in long cycles you will still ovulate.
If you want to stop ubiquinol that is fine, just wean off it though. That is something I'm not terribly sold on anyway.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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September 6th, 2018, 02:48 PM #235Swaying Advice Coach
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Missing a night WiLL mess up the FR attempt. Just do abstain.
The risks of abstain are small and when you're younger, which you guys are, the risks are miniscule, possibly not even there. I have to pick an age to be my cutoff and I picked 35 because that's the age at which risks start to rise (but even for men oer 35 they are still very small). The reason I don't let men over 35 do abstain is because it doesn't work anyway, and it makes no sense to take even a teeny risk for something that doesn't work and cuts odds of conception. it is NOT because I think abstaining is super dangerous for everyone or that it always or even 99% of the time is harmful, it's just that it doesn't make sense to do it after a certain point since it doesn't help and cuts odds of conception anyway.
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September 6th, 2018, 04:38 PM #237Swaying Advice Coach
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Whichever you prefer. We have reasons to believe that regular, unprotected sex will raise hubby's sperm count and exposure to the hormones in his semen will both make you more fertile and also sway blue for you. Many of us on this site who have all boys had unprotected sex regularly when not TTC and then we just kept going through ovulation in months we were trying to conceive.
But many peopel can't bear to do that because it's different from Shettles recommendations. If you can't stand to do the unprotected sex, you can have him release on his own or do so with you, iwth a non-spermicide condom for blue.
it is all right to do as you've done in the past but I want you to try to have more than one attempt for blue. This has been one of our best sway tactics - aim for 3-5 attempts at or around ovulation and that is how many of us all boy mamas got our boys!!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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September 7th, 2018, 02:55 AM #238
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September 7th, 2018, 11:43 AM #239Swaying Advice Coach
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(this is for blue for those who are mixed up, since we have both pink and blue swayers posting in this thread)
If you believe in timing, with that pattern, you would have attempt on CD 13 (or even two if u can fit one in in the afternoon), morning of CD 14, night of CD 14. To guard against delayed ovulation, I'd have u attempt CD 15 (night) and then every other day unless you're 110% sure you've ovulated already.
If you DON"T believe in timing I'd have attempt CD 10, 12, 13 (morning or afternoon and night if poss), morning of CD 14, night of CD 14, then CD 15 and every other day after to guard against delayed O.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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September 10th, 2018, 02:29 AM #240
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So happy for you Treens, congratulations Sent from my SM-A225F using Tapatalk
Healthy baby girl :)