frequency of BD for pink and blue

[atomic sagebrush]

Fingers and toes crossed!!

[ruupau]

Unfortunately atomic the evil witch came late as spotting yesterday and today light thought I was going to miss it, the attempt was early or am not ovulating but was having more saliva in my mouth, and craved for sweet things I could go for chocolate or cookies or sugar free bubble gums, now waiting for my AF to end would need your advice, last time I did 1 attempt a day before positive OPK, with abstain of 14 days and LE diet, less exercise, should I stick with the abstain and 1attempt or I go for e4wd, I cheated during 2ww hope I didn't ruin it


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[ruupau]

Unfortunately atomic the evil witch came late as spotting yesterday and today light thought I was going to miss it, the attempt was early or am not ovulating but was having more saliva in my mouth, and craved for sweet things I could go for chocolate or cookies or sugar free bubble gums, now waiting for my AF to end would need your advice, last time I did 1 attempt a day before positive OPK, with abstain of 14 days and LE diet, less exercise, should I stick with the abstain and 1attempt or I go for e4wd, I cheated during 2ww hope I didn't ruin it


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But I gt a light positive early preg test, I took the pic today, so I don't know whats going on now

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[ruupau]

I tested last night

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[ruupau]

Maybe its an invalid

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[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I'm not convinced that is a true positive, although the symptoms are interesting.

I do not ever recommend abstains of 14 days and haven't you guys been trying for quite a while now?? I'd drop abstain and have your husband do regular releease every 2-4 days instead.

[ruupau]

This was our first cycle, was waiting for the BC to come off my system, so this cycle will do 2-4 days but I would like to have 1 attempt only is that sound OK, with DH working far we are going to end up being in abstain for 10+ days again but not 14 I don't know maybe will try 2-4 release and 1 attempt, with the new year coming Wil be with in laws no chances for BD, but I know God have plans. I also think the abstain was long given that DH is 37

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[ruupau]

What do you do if you have a 11 day luteal phase, is that a shorter or its fine

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[ruupau]

Sorry to trouble Atomic can you please explain whats 2-4 days,

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[atomic sagebrush]

Oh I'm sorry, for some reason I thought you'd been trying for a while.

Yes keep the one attempt, have the every 2-4 day release. If he has to abstain for several days due to work, then that's ok, we just aren't going to deliberately have you abstain any more.

11 days is long enough to get pregnant but we have to be sure you're eating enough so it doesn't get any shorter. I remember you were maybe not eating as much as you should, is that still going on or did you find a way to eat a bit more?