frequency of BD for pink and blue

[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry to trouble Atomic can you please explain whats 2-4 days,

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have your husband release either on his own or with you, with a condom, every 2-4 days for as far in advance of your attempt as possible. Do this with one attempt.

[ruupau]

Oh I'm sorry, for some reason I thought you'd been trying for a while.

Yes keep the one attempt, have the every 2-4 day release. If he has to abstain for several days due to work, then that's ok, we just aren't going to deliberately have you abstain any more.

11 days is long enough to get pregnant but we have to be sure you're eating enough so it doesn't get any shorter. I remember you were maybe not eating as much as you should, is that still going on or did you find a way to eat a bit more?

I find a way to eat a bit, I now think am in range, though sometimes I can be busy that I forgot or delay to eat, i will keep the one attempt and avoid j&d because last time I did that too.

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[ruupau]

have your husband release either on his own or with you, with a condom, every 2-4 days for as far in advance of your attempt as possible. Do this with one attempt.

DH is only home for 3 days after my AF and from there till my Ovulation he will be super busy so is it okay to jus leave it to abstain then as he can't release alone and one more question is the release in a row or skipping days, sorry for asking too much, thanks for the responding

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[atomic sagebrush]

The release is skipping 2, 3 or 4 days between them. NOT in a row.

Yes it's fine if he has to do abstain. It cuts odds of conception but it doesn't sound as if there is any option.

[ruupau]

Hey Atomic, sorry to trouble, so been abstaining from CD 2-7 and on CD 8, DH wanted to release (with protection) and it happened, but CD 9 nothing happened so today its CD10, should I do the 2-4 days of release in advance of the attempt or I should continue abstain, was planning to abstain because DH was working but now that he is not working and the abstain was disturbed, I don't know what I should do, usually ovulate CD 14/15, so currently I am 4 days before my attempt, I would need your advice, and thank you

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[atomic sagebrush]

Agh sorry I missed this yesterday.

I would just have you continue with the abstain. But if you released again, that's ok too. They got about the same in terms of results. Whichever is easier for you guys.

[ruupau]

Thanks Atomic, I jus thought you were going to say continue abstain so I jus continued abstaining, thanks a lot

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[AHAM23]

Same cycle length but swaying for a girl! What frequency would you suggest for a girl sway?

[atomic sagebrush]

Same cycle length but swaying for a girl! What frequency would you suggest for a girl sway?

the first post in this thread has an investigation of the possible patterns you might think about using.

No frequency pattern has really worked though. The important thing is the one attempt, so for pink, keep the one attempt as long as possible. Drop all other less effective sway tactics (like timing, frequency, pH, antihistamines, etc) and keep one attempt s long as you can.

[ruupau]

Hey Atomic, thanks for the response you were giving me, I did my attempt and tested positive 10 DPO and confirmed the test @11 DPO and got the bfp,

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