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January 13th, 2019, 05:58 PM
#1
Dream Vet
Boy when DH cycles
Hi Atomic and swayers,
DH has just started cycling to work (approx 30 min each way) and it's making my nervous about our possible blue sway in April-June. I suggested he take up some weight training to counteract but my suggestion didn't go down well.
Is there anyone who has gone on to have boys when DH cycles almost daily?
Atomic, how bigger concern is this cycling?
Thanks
DD1 (2014)
DD2 (2016)
Our
sway is getting into NOW or NEVER territory
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January 13th, 2019, 06:21 PM
#2
Moderator
I don't know how much this helps but before conceiving DS2, DH rode his bike to work every day. It's roughly 45 min one way. DH had also been running and doing other cardio (military) when we were ttc DS1.
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January 14th, 2019, 11:47 AM
#3
Swaying Advice Coach
Honestly, it is a concern, and a chunk of my blue sway opposites were in cyclists (oddly, I've had a small handful of pro cyclists and BMX bikers among my blue swayers - 5 or 6 and several did get opposites)
Weights cannot counteract it, because it's not testosterone related, it's the actual effect of the bike seat on his genitals, it's believed. I would get him a seat with more padding than the standard and hopefully he'll keep the spandex on the looser fitting side.
Obviously, it falls into one of those categories of "outside our control" so we do the other things we can do and sway in different ways.
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January 14th, 2019, 11:48 AM
#4
Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
ksmom
I don't know how much this helps but before conceiving DS2, DH rode his bike to work every day. It's roughly 45 min one way. DH had also been running and doing other cardio (military) when we were ttc DS1.
yes plenty of opposites - pink swayers whose hubbies were biking and they got boys anyway! It's not a dealbreaker.
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January 14th, 2019, 12:44 PM
#5
Originally Posted by
MiaMelb
Hi Atomic and swayers,
DH has just started cycling to work (approx 30 min each way) and it's making my nervous about our possible blue sway in April-June. I suggested he take up some weight training to counteract but my suggestion didn't go down well.
Is there anyone who has gone on to have boys when DH cycles almost daily?
Atomic, how bigger concern is this cycling?
Thanks
My hubby cycles daily ( sometimes 100km) and has done so for years. We have 3 boys! ( hopefully a little girl on the way as I'm 7weeks now)
Its so hard not to analyse every aspect when swaying....hope you get a little boy xxx
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January 14th, 2019, 06:22 PM
#6
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Honestly, it is a concern, and a chunk of my blue sway opposites were in cyclists (oddly, I've had a small handful of pro cyclists and BMX bikers among my blue swayers - 5 or 6 and several did get opposites)
Weights cannot counteract it, because it's not testosterone related, it's the actual effect of the bike seat on his genitals, it's believed. I would get him a seat with more padding than the standard and hopefully he'll keep the spandex on the looser fitting side.
Obviously, it falls into one of those categories of "outside our control" so we do the other things we can do and sway in different ways.
Bit dejected to hear that but thanks for your honesty. Just frustrating after a year or being too unwell to ttc and no cycling and then as soon as Im feeling well enough he wants to get back into it. Thankfully there is np lycra involved
I feel like I cant ask him to cut back a few days just atm because he's just getting back into ot but is it pf value to try and get him to cut backk a few days 6-8 weeks prior to ttc? Or will the 'damage' already have been done by then?
DD1 (2014)
DD2 (2016)
Our
sway is getting into NOW or NEVER territory
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January 14th, 2019, 06:24 PM
#7
Dream Vet
Thanks ksmon and Bonnieblue, I know a couple of friends whose DH rode a bit and had boys but its always nice to have some reassurance its not a deal breaker.
DD1 (2014)
DD2 (2016)
Our
sway is getting into NOW or NEVER territory
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January 16th, 2019, 02:17 PM
#8
Swaying Advice Coach
Yes absolutely it is fine to have him cut back whenever. There will still be some benefit even right up to when you TTC.
PS - glad to hear you're feeling better!
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January 19th, 2019, 08:14 PM
#9
Dream Vet
Woohoo, I can see you’ve changed your signature...when will you’re be ttcing ?
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January 20th, 2019, 01:17 AM
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Dream Vet
Lol I wouldn't count of us until after a bfp, still plenty of time to freak out and back out. DH would prefer to stay at two but is definitely open to three so I find the pressure of making the final decision a bit overwhelming. Thinking we might give it a go April-July.
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