Hi ladies,
I really need an insight from who went through the same.
I had an early loss (5.5 weeks) last month and since then I regrouped and being consistently following diet, exercise, alcohol and coffee.
Long story short, I started having high fertility signs on Thursday evening so I attempted on Friday evening thinking that the peak was around the corner but nope :-( I wanted to go for 1 BD at +opk, but I am still getting flashing smiles on CB digital and negative (but almost positive ykwim) cheapies.
Temps don't help either as I got a slight decrease on Friday morning followed by a temp spike on saturday morning followed by some average high temp this morning. I attach the chart (sorry if it looks messy).
Anyone experienced something similar after a loss?
I am now at a dead point: should I add in another attempt? And if so when?
I dont wanna waste the month...
TIA
Last edited by ForeverRestless; September 15th, 2019 at 03:01 AM.
Hi Lila!
Hope you are doing good hun! How's your baby doing?
thank you alot anyway, I am trying to catch the egg this cycle and I'll try maybe next month too if nothing happens. Then I'll probably take a break in winter till next year.
Maybe by that time we will be ttc buddies
Hugs!!!
I would keep testing and at any point starting Monday, if you have another positive, have another attempt.
It is not at all unusual to have weird cycles a month or even two after a loss. Your body doesn't really "want" to get pregnant again unless it's "sure" that things are ok and so it may hold onto the egg a little while longer.
It's fine to attempt still - delayed ovulation is not harmful and you'll almost certainly still O, just a few days or a week later than your normal range.
I would keep testing and at any point starting Monday, if you have another positive, have another attempt.
It is not at all unusual to have weird cycles a month or even two after a loss. Your body doesn't really "want" to get pregnant again unless it's "sure" that things are ok and so it may hold onto the egg a little while longer.
It's fine to attempt still - delayed ovulation is not harmful and you'll almost certainly still O, just a few days or a week later than your normal range.
Thank you Atomic!
So far just flashing smiles since 3 days on the CB Digital and no solid smiley.
I will see how it goes tomorrow and as soon as I get a solid smile I will attempt.
I never go like this, but as you said that could very well be my body trying to adjust.
I am also thinking about going e4d starting from last friday (my last attempt) and attempt tomorrow anyway, then Thursday, Sunday etc...
I am wasting a fortune on opks this cycle so this would at least prevent me to keep on throwing money. What do you think?
Thank you!
I am absolutely fine with anyone going to e4d! Absolutely! Those Clearblue tests are horrendous!
Never got so mixed up by an opk! .
I am still going getting flashing smiley since Friday. One step cheapie are negative.
I'll try and have an attempt tonite past midnight if OH manages (he works and finishes at 1.30 am night-time) or tomorrow very early in the morning...
Do you think it will be fine either way even if not properly e4d?
Oh, and FF gave me dashed crosshair and ovulation last Friday (day of 1st attempt) and put me at 3dpo, lol!
I'm having sustained temps but I don't feel i oed yet. I don't think its even possible an opk keeps giving flashing smiles after ovulation, if it occurred...
This is how it looks now.
Yes the e4d was never meant to be set in stone, however it works out is fine.
It is DEFINITELY possible to ovulate and have an OPK continue to give you flashy smileys. That is entirely possible. But given that you don 't think you have ovulated, and that your temp chart really does not show me an obvious pattern, combined with the lack of solid smiely, for now I think you haven't.
Yes the e4d was never meant to be set in stone, however it works out is fine.
It is DEFINITELY possible to ovulate and have an OPK continue to give you flashy smileys. That is entirely possible. But given that you don 't think you have ovulated, and that your temp chart really does not show me an obvious pattern, combined with the lack of solid smiely, for now I think you haven't.
Hi Atomic,
CD 27 here and still no luck I guess.🙄 any thought on my chart? I had a +opk both cheapie and CB (solid smile) last Thrusday CD23 and I attempted.
I expected a rise the day after and temps rose but the day after instead of remaining steady they went down low the folllwing days.
Soooo disappointing.
Is there still a chance I can o this cycle?
Surprisingly enough I got some Ewcm today. But OPK (cheapie and CB) are negative. I'll try later, eventually.
Thank you!
Yes there is absolutely still a chance you will ovulate this month! A good chance! Just keep going with the e4d and you'll be in place to catch the egg when it arrives!
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