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September 27th, 2020, 10:00 AM
#41
I'm fairly certain my positive opk at cd19 wasn't a true surge---I am 4 days late for AF (with LH of 10 days) and all FRER have been very negative. Perhaps my true surge was CD25. I'm on cd34 right now. I have been crampy, backaches, widely changing cm and cervix position for two weeks. My cervix is so high, I cannot feel it. I do have some ewcm, as well as thicker (globby?) yellowish cm with that. I'm so confused. Have no opks right now, so haven't tested again. For several months, I was consistently having cycles of 29 days with ovulation occuring around cd19. First month TTC, and it's been completely different.
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September 27th, 2020, 10:08 AM
#42
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That happens so often, it's incredibly irritating. It's entirely possible you are ovulating NOW. I would have an attempt even though you don't have OPK.
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September 27th, 2020, 02:46 PM
#43
We had an attempt this afternoon. I hope this wasn't ovulation and my cycles don't continue to be unpredictable and long as February is the latest we can try to conceive before having to take a break for 5-6 months due to husband's work responsibilities when babe would be due. 😩
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September 28th, 2020, 10:33 AM
#44
Swaying Advice Coach
All you need to do if cycles are unpredictable is to go to the e4d method and you'll always be covered in that case. I believe if we take some steps here you will be pregnant by February.
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September 28th, 2020, 12:43 PM
#45
Okay, I will do e4d (we've been doing every 72 hours---just works out that way). It makes me nervous since it took longer with my other children--a year for two of them (one three months after a miscarriage), and surprisingly only 5 months with my last babe but we were DTD every day in the fertile window, and twice a day for two days once got a positive opk, with preseed almost every time.
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September 28th, 2020, 01:07 PM
#46
Swaying Advice Coach
Every 72 hours IS every 4 days. Just keep doing that.
If you want we can add an attempt at positive OPK to the e4d.
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September 28th, 2020, 02:52 PM
#47
Okay, we will continue e4d and add in an attempt at positive opk. What are the thoughts on sex/orgasm during the TWW?
Oh my, just plugged in my tentative ovulation dates for this cycle if I don't get AF and if the most recent high cervix + ewcm was actual ovulation, babe would be due on my 30th birthday!! So now I'm praying that I did in fact ovulate way late and will be blessed with another babe who arrives on their due date!
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September 29th, 2020, 10:40 AM
#48
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Great!!! FXFXFX!
Sex and orgasm in 2WW are at your discretion. I think they're fine both for your sway and your conception (some people worry sex during the 2WW prevents conception - it doesn't) so I leave that choice up to you.
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September 30th, 2020, 12:38 PM
#49
Still no AF, and BFNs so far. Nipples have been increasingly sensitive past couple days, cervix is still very high.
On 9/21, CD28, I had two pea sized light pink spots on TP after using the bathroom. I never have spotting in between cycles, what could this have been?
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September 30th, 2020, 02:39 PM
#50
Swaying Advice Coach
It could be anything. I know you're probably hoping that I'll say it's implantation, and that's one of many possibilities, but the truth is that 99 times out of 100 when people ask me this question it isn't implantation so I don't want to lead you down a path of getting your hopes up for it till we know more. FXFXFX!!!
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