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[iseeherinmydreams]

Hello! Wanting to post my first thread (I am TTC a baby girl and I cannot get my acidic level below 5.75/6.25!! I am doing diet, douche and replense! HELP!!! How do I post a new thread of my own to get advice??

[atomic sagebrush]

Well, we have not found pH to work at all and you can read more about that here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...ph-pickle.html

But if pH is important to you, it's your decision of course. I suspect what may be happening is that the Replens + douche may be causing a rebound effect where your body makes a lot of EWCM to basically rinse them away. They are irritating and your body "doesn't like" that so many people will experience a rush of alkaline fluid as your body tries to get rid of the stuff.

What is your pH around ovulation when u are not using those things??

I answered in the chatbox above already but in case you miss it, to start a new thread you have to actually open one of the forums. Not an individual thread, a forum itself. So go to the main page, scroll down to whatever forum u want to post in and then open that and you'll see the "start new thread" option.

Just to make it easier, here is the TTC a Girl forum https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...nceive-a-girl/ but if you wanted to post in another forum, just go to the main page, click open the forum, and you're off to the races.

[iseeherinmydreams]

AH! Everything I've been researching is basically wrong My normal pH id say is around 5.75!

So I really wanted to conceive this month or next which now doing more research here seems like impossible since i need to be on the diet for a few months? dang! I'm really interested in purchasing a girl sway diet! can you point me in the right direction?? I never eat carbs so i am worried even if i do small carb portions etc. Ill wind up gaining weight and not loosing like Im supposed to.

[iseeherinmydreams]

I just purchased a meal plan!! Please let me know where to go from here! Im so excited to get it and start!

[atomic sagebrush]

Hey, I have an easy fix for your pH problem here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...over-diet.html YOu were testing urine, which will always be in that range, instead of EWCM which is what you're meant to be changing with all that stuff.

I will say this - doing all those things for pH you were doing, your odds of conceiving would have been pretty darn low anyway so what I"d suggest is starting diet, and seeing what happens. If u need to try this month, that's fine, just be sure you stick with just one attempt (for reasons we do not know, one attempt has been very pink friendly). Many times people end up taking a couple months to conceive and then you're in with a good chunk of time on diet anyway.

Losing weight has not been super predictive of whose sways will work and whose don't. I have an alternate diet that will be better for you and you can find that here in this thread (even if you don't have PCOS it is going to be better) https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...rt-3-pcos.html and a little more about blood sugar and sway diets here in this thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...d-sugar-issues

Above all else, do what works better for YOU. All you really need to do at the end of the day is make changes in a pink friendly direction from what you were doing when you got your boy(s). I had to make a set of guidelines because people wanted them, but it is ok to deviate from that if you need to. As long as you're doing things more girl-friendly than you were, that's what counts.

The meal plan is immediately available for you to download here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...n-for-le-diet/ Thanks so much for your purchase! This really helps me to continue doing this as my job and helping as many people as I can regardless of their ability to sway!

[iseeherinmydreams]

You were right, the douche was definitely doing the opposite for me! My other question is - I am sticking to a low protein diet and adding empty carbs/nutrition food etc. But my worry is- I was a heavy kid growing up and I lost a bunch of weight going on a lean protein/veg/fruit diet. I never ever ever eat carbs unless its a cheat meal. I am worried i may gain weight from carbs even in small portions because my calorie intake to loose weight is very low! Is it a must to loose weight ??

[atomic sagebrush]

No it's not a must to lose weight. If your BMI is 21 or below, I want you to just hold steady where you are.

The main thing is that you move in a pink friendly direction from where you were. I had to make a blanket, one size fits all set of guidelines because people wanted them but so long as you eat fewer cals, lower protein, lower fat, and get higher % of your fat intake from vegetable fats instead of animal fats, plus eliminate snacking/grazing behavior and reduce to 2 or 3 meals a day, you will be swaying pink. If you need to do more like 70 g protein and 60 g fat plus mostly veg instead of carbier things like grains/fruits, that is fine provided you can keep your weight stable doing that. Even if you can't get below 80 or even 90 g (I consider 90 g to be deffo in the boy zone) if you were eating 120 g, that is still more pink friendly! Just do what you CAN do!

[iseeherinmydreams]

Makes sense! Thank you!

Okay next questions - sorry!

My husband and I BD Tuesday,Thursday,Friday and Saturday. Today i woke up and used the clear blue ovulation test and got a smiley face! Should we continue to BD or stop?

[nuthinbutpink]

Amel- Thisis the private forum- https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...aching-access/

I will copy your post to there for you.

[Vanessaenns]

Hi. I purchased the boy gender swaying kit. I tried to submit form 2 but got a notice that the form failed to submit because nuthinbutpink ‘a inbox is full and can no longer receive private messages. Please let me know what to do!