bfp but having 2nd thoughts

[ukini]

do you share the IVF process with friends? we have not shared with anyone should we?

[glory]

It is up to you, I have told a few people but not telling the majority.

I would say for you no don't tell anyone, if you can't handle being pregnant by IVF then you won't be able to handle the judgement you will receive.

Curiously do want to know where you cycled and what country you are from.

[nuthinbutpink]

No, you do not have to tell.

[Wanting a daughter]

Honey you are quite clearly having a HUGE panic attack right now. DO NOT make any rash decisions about terminating a healthy pregnancy whilst feeling this way. I could almost guarantee it would be something you lived to regret. This fear will pass as your pregnancy progresses and you see your healthy baby boy growing inside you. By the time he is out and in your loving arms you will look back on these thoughts and hate yourself for even thinking them. He is going to be FINE!!!!!

There is no reason at all that you need to tell him how he was concieved if you don't wish to. As others have said there are hundreds of thousands af people born via IVF who are perfectly healthy.

Go see a doctor and talk about these COMPLETELY IRRATIONAL thoughts. You may even be better off on some pregnancy safe anxiety meds (if there are any). Seriously, if you ended this pregnancy, after you snap out of this panic attack, I believe you would be devastated by your actions. Focus on the HAPPY HAPPY fact that you are pregnant with your son!!!!

[michaela]

Why did I open and read this thread????

Girl you need some help and you need it quick. I don't say this to many people but be thankful for what you have as you clearly have no idea how special a little life can be.

[HopeandDreamG]

Oh what I would do to be pregnant with my DG I wouldn't care how it happened.... Even if an alien from outer space implanted her in my womb...... I'd b the happiest woman on the planet

[PinkWish]

I'm leaning toward the troll theory! Why someone would put all the time, money, energy, emotions into IVF/PDG and then after a BFP freak out and make all these posts?!

I would be *beyond* thrilled to be pg with my DG, however it happened. If you are serious, I think you really need to speak to someone about your reaction at this stage of the game.

[Possible pink?]

I'm leaning toward the troll theory! Why someone would put all the time, money, energy, emotions into IVF/PDG and then after a BFP freak out and make all these posts?!

I would be *beyond* thrilled to be pg with my DG, however it happened. If you are serious, I think you really need to speak to someone about your reaction at this stage of the game.

I feel stupid, but what does troll theory mean?

[PinkWish]

I feel stupid, but what does troll theory mean?

A troll is a fakie poster who comes on to basically stir the pot-
Troll (Internet) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[Possible pink?]

Yah! That makes sense...I am in disbelief that someone would go HT and then think about àbortion also.