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March 6th, 2019, 10:05 AM
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Originally Posted by
Verena
Wow, that's a difference
we have to travel from Germany, so my thought was to choose the clinic with best success rates to not have to travel that often. But in that case it would be cheaper to travel three times to CNY than one time to HRC... Do you know where CNY is located? I think I read that you are thinking about going HT as well. Have you already made a decission? I find it so hard but I think I wouldn't sway again since I'm at the point where I would only want a fourth child if it was a girl. And I feel horrible to say so :-(
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CNY is in Syracuse, NY. According to their site, you go there for retrieval but you can do all other monitoring and tests locally to you.
Yes I'm going HT. The decision was easy for me I guess because after DS3 I knew I did not want another baby, I wanted a daughter. I knew if I swayed again and had boy #4, I'd still want a daughter and I'd be back at square one.
The plan is to do IVF then (if we are lucky enough!) freeze any healthy XX. If we get to that point then I'll go back in a couple years for a transfer. I'm not ready for another baby right now so I figure since I turn 32 this month, I should just go ahead and at least freeze embies for later.
Good luck in whatever you decide!
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March 10th, 2019, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by
ksmom
CNY is in Syracuse, NY. According to their site, you go there for retrieval but you can do all other monitoring and tests locally to you.
Yes I'm going HT. The decision was easy for me I guess because after DS3 I knew I did not want another baby, I wanted a daughter. I knew if I swayed again and had boy #4, I'd still want a daughter and I'd be back at square one.
The plan is to do IVF then (if we are lucky enough!) freeze any healthy XX. If we get to that point then I'll go back in a couple years for a transfer. I'm not ready for another baby right now so I figure since I turn 32 this month, I should just go ahead and at least freeze embies for later.
Good luck in whatever you decide!
Thank you ksmom! So we are in quite a similar situation (with the difference that I am 5 years older and my DH is not supportive ). Good luck for your HT journey as well!
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