Hello! I am also new here and have two precious little boys. Your story sounds alot like mine. I tried the 4 day cutoff before we concieved our 2nd son and it didnt work. The month I got pregnant we didnt do the cutoff. Pretty sure we conceived right before I ovulated and whala...another lil boy! My diet and habits were all boy factors. I dont think I had a chance! Im guessing my ph was way to high too to have a girl. I would love to sway pink but am waiting till next year. However I have started altering my diet and charting my cycle to get ready. I am getting as much info as I can. Cant hurt right?!?!? Good luck with your sway!!