Newbie with 3 sons and desparate for a girl but sadly will probably never get that chance :(

[HouseOfTurtles]

It may happen...you never know what fate has in store for you! Welcome!

[fairyfrog]

Hope it all works out. The more people sway girl the more hope I have that it is possible. Welcome.

[The Anchor]

Hello and welcome! You are not alone

[3blue?pink]

Welcome. I'm a mum to three boys too. Your hubby may come round. Mine was pretty sure he wanted a vasectomy after DS3 but has gotten clucky again.

Ditto my DP also thaunted me with the snip snip when I was pregnant with #3. But since then he has opened up and allowed me to consider PGD which has turned in to at home gender swaying and has even said that if this doesn't get our girl then we can always try again (WTF) we went from ONLY 3 to maybe 5 so there is always hope to turn DH/DP.

Threeboysblessed I too considered counseling when I had gender depression it made me feel like there was no hope and made me forget how blessed I was to have my healthy boys. I had a new born baby who was (and still is) so beautiful in everyway and should have enjoyed every second of being pregnant and having him in my arms but gender depression took over all my thoughts. When my dear friend was having a girl it took me months and many tries (having break downs in retail shops) to finally get the courage up to buy anything pink. Since then I have managed it by myself love my #3 boy more than anything and couldn't imagine my life with out him and it wasn't just because DP has agreed to more kids because he has only changed his mind a year ago. There is a day where you will feel better about it all and not have to 'get over it' as such you will still have those thoughts and feelings (I still do) but they won't consume your every moment and there is always hope. I just hope I can be as stronge again if #4's sway doesn't work and is another boy