Hi there,

[Daydreamer]

Hi everyone,

I'm Tasha stay at home mum to three beautiful girls and wife to my incredibly amazing DH Rob.

Two weeks ago I had a late miscarriage at 19 weeks, and gave birth to my wee angel Robert. I am still devastated and still have no ideas as to why this happened. I have now how ever come to terms with it and am wanting to get ready to try again, and would love to TTC another little boy.

I did nothing in particular to get pregnant with a boy last time, so I'm hoping with swaying it will happen again.

Hoping to get some great advice and support from you all

[BlueMom]

I'm very sorry for your loss :-( there's a lot of info in here to prepare your sway. Fx you get your little boy, sending you all my blue dust, good luck!

[3littleladies]

Welcome!
Im so very sorry for your loss, I cant even begin to imagine what that would be like.
I personally don't believe in swaying only because I swayed and it failed, Im a big believer of whats meant to be will be, but in saying that there's heaps & heaps of information here on swaying, absorb it all in and give it your best shot, because Im glad I did sway, that way I know I did everything possible with no regrets.

Goodluck with your boy!

[monkeysnuffer]

Ohhh, I am so sorry.

[nuthinbutpink]

I am so sorry. Did you do any genetic testing to find out why you lost him? There was likely some genetic reason that is like lightning striking. It shouldn't happen to you again.

It's not very supportive to say you don't believe in swaying.Just because it doesn't work for one doesn't mean it cannot work for you. Don't let negative people projecting their life on you get you down.

We have an entire site dedicated to Gender Selection either through swaying or HT. Swaying is a science. It is very difficult to compare sways because we are all different. All you can do is create an attempt out of what we do know- what we know through scientific data can sway gender.

Good luck to you and I hope your son sends you a brother!

[3littleladies]

I am so sorry. Did you do any genetic testing to find out why you lost him? There was likely some genetic reason that is like lightning striking. It shouldn't happen to you again.

It's not very supportive to say you don't believe in swaying.Just because it doesn't work for one doesn't mean it cannot work for you. Don't let negative people projecting their life on you get you down.

We have an entire site dedicated to Gender Selection either through swaying or HT. Swaying is a science. It is very difficult to compare sways because we are all different. All you can do is create an attempt out of what we do know- what we know through scientific data can sway gender.

Good luck to you and I hope your son sends you a brother!

I don't think its very nice of you to call me negative when you don't know me at all, I simply expressed my feelings towards swaying because it didn't work for ME & I did clearly state there's plenty of information on this site on swaying and that I had no regrets doing it.

Sorry Daydreamer, some people don't like when you express ones feelings, I hope I didn't put you off in any way because it wasn't intentional.

[ELP]

Welcome to the site Daydreamer, sorry its under such sad circumstances It will be great to help you along the way to hopefully ading a precious little boy to your family, if you ned any help just ask and maybe say hello in the blue chat thread as the current blue swayers plus us oldies pop in there often to offer advice on what is currently having the best success!! Best of luck xxxx

[Daydreamer]

Thanks everyone for the welcome

I know that gender swaying is not 100% guaranteed, but it will be great to try, and if we end up with another girl she will be loved just as much

I think just after being told we were having a boy after three girls and told everything looks fine, and then to loose him 48 hours later was just heartbreaking. I mean it would still have been just as tough if it was a girl too, but we were hoping for a boy and to be put on such a high it was just fiurther to come back down

But I look forward to being a part of gender dreaming Oh, and I didn't even realise when I made my user name, my last name is Day lol.

[1+2+3boys]

Welcome and I am so sorry to hear about your little boy. Goodluck for your swaying journey and falling pregnant and I hope it is a little boy that you get to keep