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January 25th, 2015, 04:22 PM
#11
Dream Vet
Justine, if I may give you some good advise: don't even think of going to Jordan and don't let you monitor by this doctor you have in mind, I know well who you're talking about, some girls here have a bad experience with him and Jordan success rates are nihil.
Did HT in summer and got BFP
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January 26th, 2015, 03:33 AM
#12
Oh really Emmake?
Feeling bad now , because I was planned to call him this afternoon...
He wrote me an email and said I could call him today past 3 o'clock.
I wanted to ask him if it's possible to guide me with Czech, he used to do this normally.
I'm just so anxious that I won't find a doctor over here to do the bloodtests, ultrasounds,
follow-up for the medications.
Is there a doctor that you might recommend to me Emmake?
Or somebody else who can recommend a doctor from Belgium?
I'm just too scared to talk about this with my own gynecologist,
I know her for many years now and I know/feel what is negotiable and what isn't.
Is it "normal" that I'm even dreaming about this website and HT?
In my dreams I'm already pregnant ... What a disappoinment when I wake up,
but also still a loooooong way to go! And I want to do this for sure!
Just so glad that I can ventilate to my husband, it seems that he wants it just as much as I do.
But he's always relaxt and I'm not (I want everything to happen very fast and I know it doesn't work like that in this journey).
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January 26th, 2015, 03:53 AM
#13
Dream Vet
Justine, I'll pm you later on today. I understand that you'll not be able to cycle very shortly, so you have plenty of time to prepare.
Did HT in summer and got BFP
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January 26th, 2015, 09:45 AM
#14
I just called that doctor.
He said that in Czech they no longer accept woman without
fertility problems and under the age of 35.
He said this is since the 1 of January this year.
He asked me to come over for a consultation, so he can give me
Information about the clinic in Jordan, where he,
as he said, believes in for 100%...
So if I may believe him, there is no chance for me on going to Czech.. :s
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January 26th, 2015, 09:48 AM
#15
I mean also they do not longer accept woman/couples
without medical problems or diseases that can be given to the baby.
Srry for the bad explanation
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January 26th, 2015, 09:54 AM
#16
Dream Vet
Let me introduce myself
Justine, you do what you want but if i were you i would not even contact him as he is giving you very misleading info, it is his strategy as he probably has some financial reasons why he prefers Jordan, i already made it clear to you, i know several ladies who lost a lot of time and money with him without any success.
Last edited by emmake; January 26th, 2015 at 09:59 AM.
Did HT in summer and got BFP
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January 26th, 2015, 03:20 PM
#17
I know Emmake, I won't go to Jordan! I do not have a good feeling with it, I can't explain...
It's just not feeling right.
I don't know it for now.. I'm a bit disappointed, it's just the beginning and I feel already
that this will be a tough journey. (you know what it is, so sorry if I sound nugatory)
But I want to reach my goal, and I will do anything what is necessary.
When you have a minute, could you please send me a pm? Only when possible he!
Thanks a lot for your time! Really appreciate it!
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January 26th, 2015, 03:44 PM
#18
Dream Vet
Yes I plan on HT for our 4th and final child. We live in New Zealand and DP is German and his family live in Berlin which is a train ride away from the main Czech clinic so it makes sense to go there on the side when we manage to save enough money to visit. It is quite a way off, I wouldn't think this year is possible but I do need a break from children I suppose before having more sleepless nights with baby. We can't really afford HT and it seems like an impossible dream but I think now that I know that it exists, I need to persue it because I feel such a great sadness over not having a daughter that I do not feel will ever totally go away. I'd love a 4th boy too but I'd have to give up on my dream then and I am not prepared to risk it at this stage. I only wanted 3 children and am only just managing with them and I don't want to put that extra pressure of 4 kids on myself mentally, physically and financially unless I can garuntee it is my daughter so as far as I see it, I have no other choice expect to try and accept thing the way they are but I am not ready to do that yet.
I had not heard about Cz no longer accepting under 35s with no fertility problems. That would rule me out. Have you mentioned it to the ladies in the the cycling at Cz thread 2015? I would ultimately prefer to go to HRC but that would mean waiting at least another 2 years on top of what we already planned to save more money and the thought of waiting for my daughter so long hurts. The sooner the better in regards to success too but luckily time is on my side being only in my late 20s.
It's all so hard isn't it!
For now I just have to try and focus on life as it is. I really need to not long on here so much until I am closer to my journey but I love this forem!
DPs sons
21 +
13
11 + our
6
4 year old identical twins!
I might actually be over my deep yearning for a
and it's an exciting feeling
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January 26th, 2015, 04:21 PM
#19
Moderator
Welcome Justine! I hope you get your girl
Sept 2008 & successful boy sway
June 2010.
M/C Oct 2012
Is DE in my future?
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January 30th, 2015, 05:23 PM
#20
Dream Vet
OMG, sorry for all the typos! I asked in the Cz thread and appariently that was always the way but you just need to know how to approach the clinic. Seems all too hard. I am starting to think about swaying again. I thought I was done with the changing my mind between the two options
DPs sons
21 +
13
11 + our
6
4 year old identical twins!
I might actually be over my deep yearning for a
and it's an exciting feeling
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