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March 15th, 2015, 09:13 PM
#11
Thanks 1+2+3. It is a very tough thing to go through.
Are you doing HT for your little girl? When I was pregnant with DD2 I was totally for that to get a boy but now it's probably out of the question. We definitely don't have the finances for that. I would see the tough journey these women go through and I don't think I can handle that. I give these women a lot of credit. But it's great to see the successes. Good luck with getting your little girl.
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March 16th, 2015, 12:42 AM
#12
I'm so sorry for your loss bluedreams, that is so hard whether an oops or planned.You have come back to the right place for natural swaying. Very supportive and blue success is high X
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March 16th, 2015, 01:05 AM
#13
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
bluedreams
Thanks 1+2+3. It is a very tough thing to go through.
Are you doing HT for your little girl? When I was pregnant with DD2 I was totally for that to get a boy but now it's probably out of the question. We definitely don't have the finances for that. I would see the tough journey these women go through and I don't think I can handle that. I give these women a lot of credit. But it's great to see the successes. Good luck with getting your little girl.
It is very scary isn't it. Finances make it not possible for at least a couple of years and I do worry about it not working but I'm going over my number for this child and only doing it because I want a girl and would rather have a gender garuntee and wait for her than have a whole extra child before her splitting my time between children into more fragments and costing even more. I know what I can handle and would have to give up if my sway didn't work. I'd so rather sway though. If I were going for number three instead of four I so would be. Luckily I have time on my side for HT.
DPs sons
21 +
13
11 + our
6
4 year old identical twins!
I might actually be over my deep yearning for a
and it's an exciting feeling
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March 16th, 2015, 12:03 PM
#14
I am so sorry for your loss. Personally I think that your feelings and emotions are absolutely normal, please don't stress about it. I had a similiar situation wanting a DD after 3 DS, and although my loss was another DS did need time to get over it.
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March 16th, 2015, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted by
1+2+3boys
It is very scary isn't it. Finances make it not possible for at least a couple of years and I do worry about it not working but I'm going over my number for this child and only doing it because I want a girl and would rather have a gender garuntee and wait for her than have a whole extra child before her splitting my time between children into more fragments and costing even more. I know what I can handle and would have to give up if my sway didn't work. I'd so rather sway though. If I were going for number three instead of four I so would be. Luckily I have time on my side for HT.
That's just it. Time isn't on my side and I don't want to have to go through so many cycles. I figure I will just sway because I need to do something instead of just relying on chance. How long after the M/C until you started trying again?
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March 17th, 2015, 08:32 AM
#16
Dream User
hi hun sending huge hugs on your loss xxxxx
Mummy to 3 gorgeous boys
and three gorgeous stepchildren
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March 19th, 2015, 02:24 PM
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Oh no blue, I'm so sorry. HUGE HUGS.
Sept 2008 & successful boy sway
June 2010.
M/C Oct 2012
Is DE in my future?
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March 19th, 2015, 03:16 PM
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Dream Vet
Don't feel bad. I felt the same way after my loss- the heart wants what it wants and having a loss doesn't discredit feelings about the sex of the baby. I know ppl who are have been deemed infertile state their preference for a specific gender- and I know ppl who had difficulty conceiving express gender disappointment. These things are separate from each other. If it was all about a healthy baby, women wouldn't have birth trauma or gender disappointment. We are only human.
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2 baby boys blessed
Hoping for a little girl to complete our family
Angel baby Decemeber 23
confirmed
and pregnant again now
Please, please be my little girl!
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March 19th, 2015, 04:30 PM
#19
Originally Posted by
2boysJustOneGirl
Don't feel bad. I felt the same way after my loss- the heart wants what it wants and having a loss doesn't discredit feelings about the sex of the baby. I know ppl who are have been deemed infertile state their preference for a specific gender- and I know ppl who had difficulty conceiving express gender disappointment. These things are separate from each other. If it was all about a healthy baby, women wouldn't have birth trauma or gender disappointment. We are only human.
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Thank you. Also congrats on your pregnancy. When are you due? I hope it's your girl. Also sorry for your loss.
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March 19th, 2015, 05:04 PM
#20
I'm so sorry for ur loss. Good luck in swaying for ur boy!
Polpectomy/Hysteroscopy complete (2 polyps)
June ER @ HRC
30 retrieved, 24 mature, 23 fertilized, 17 to biopsy, 5 normal, 2xy!, 1 transferred, 1 frozen
HB seen at 6w4d!
I can't believe I did this!
My HT son
My family is complete. Baby fever resolved!
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