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December 29th, 2020, 08:36 AM
#51
Update from me...NIPT says boy!
so the "swaying " failed for me.
I was sad to begin with (I could not believe how sad actually!) and I feel embarrassed but I just couldn't help it. I am hoping once I get used to the idea, I will feel happier. And secretly hoping/praying NIPT was wrong, although I know that is extremely unlikely.
I think the only thing I have regrets for was not doing 2-3 days cut off, as much as Shettles is a myth, it seems to have high rate of success.
Thank you for all the help xx
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December 29th, 2020, 02:18 PM
#52
Swaying Advice Coach
I'm sorry it didn't go your way - how can we help?
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January 10th, 2021, 05:07 AM
#53
Aw thanks, didn't receive a notification for a reply received, so only just seen your message x
It's okay, I was in 2 minds to begin with, wishing a girl for myself selfishly and a boy for my son, but it's just we only wanted 2 or max 3 and now I don't know if I would have a 3rd one as I am definitely not able to accept another son.
I think what didn't work for me was the control freakishness. I think if I were to sway again, I would do my research, select the things I was comfortable in doing and then stay away from the subject and sites and baby center. I also think I should have given the cut off a chance, since we were not in a hurry for a BFP we could have waited and seen if I get pregnant like that. Think I was on the diet for a while and got impatient!
Anyway... I might come back on here and purchase a pack, but for now...I am just too afraid to think I'll try again, just in case is another boy!
Many thanks for the help nevertheless x
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January 10th, 2021, 11:53 AM
#54
Swaying Advice Coach
Yep that is a great strategy if you tend to be controlling. I truly think boys should come in pairs like shoes! I hope you have a wonderful experience raising two boys.
Bump
Not sure where to ask not TTC