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December 29th, 2020, 08:36 AM
#51
Update from me...NIPT says boy!
so the "swaying " failed for me.
I was sad to begin with (I could not believe how sad actually!) and I feel embarrassed but I just couldn't help it. I am hoping once I get used to the idea, I will feel happier. And secretly hoping/praying NIPT was wrong, although I know that is extremely unlikely.
I think the only thing I have regrets for was not doing 2-3 days cut off, as much as Shettles is a myth, it seems to have high rate of success.
Thank you for all the help xx
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December 29th, 2020, 02:18 PM
#52
Swaying Advice Coach
I'm sorry it didn't go your way - how can we help?
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January 10th, 2021, 05:07 AM
#53
Aw thanks, didn't receive a notification for a reply received, so only just seen your message x
It's okay, I was in 2 minds to begin with, wishing a girl for myself selfishly and a boy for my son, but it's just we only wanted 2 or max 3 and now I don't know if I would have a 3rd one as I am definitely not able to accept another son.
I think what didn't work for me was the control freakishness. I think if I were to sway again, I would do my research, select the things I was comfortable in doing and then stay away from the subject and sites and baby center. I also think I should have given the cut off a chance, since we were not in a hurry for a BFP we could have waited and seen if I get pregnant like that. Think I was on the diet for a while and got impatient!
Anyway... I might come back on here and purchase a pack, but for now...I am just too afraid to think I'll try again, just in case is another boy!
Many thanks for the help nevertheless x
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January 10th, 2021, 11:53 AM
#54
Swaying Advice Coach
Yep that is a great strategy if you tend to be controlling. I truly think boys should come in pairs like shoes! I hope you have a wonderful experience raising two boys.
I am so very sorry to have to post this message, but this situation obviously just cannot continue. Please stop buying things on Gender Dreaming for the time being. Until the technical issues are...
For now, please stop buying things...