swayers over 35 buddy group

[Mochagirl]

Mmmm...I like the rum punch idea, Jen! I'm a wine girl, myself. I also hear wine's very acidifying...maybe I should add that to my sway. It will definitely relax me anyway!

[Out of the Blue]

Mmmm...I like the rum punch idea, Jen! I'm a wine girl, myself. I also hear wine's very acidifying...maybe I should add that to my sway. It will definitely relax me anyway!

I say do it, Mocha! I figure we'll just try to make things fun and I'm into rum these days...

[Out of the Blue]

What's everyone eating these days??? My diet is like a broken record...Salad and air-popped popcorn for lunch...More salad and my raspberry/fiber/ricemilk smoothie for dinner. I've also been indulging in Trader Joe's seaweed snacks since they're so addictive and taste like chips. The sodium/cals, etc aren't bad at all but I'm sure seaweed sways blue. Oh, well.

[Flava]

Lot's of us don't think the IG spreadsheet is accurate. There is so many girls who do not report back especially the 'failed sways" so I don't give much about their so called success rate.

[Flava]

I tried 0+12 when I swayed with ds3 back in my IG days, and I messed it up so badly I swore I'd never do it again. Personally I find it's waaaayy too stressful to try to pinpoint O, with the risk you're going to miss your egg entirely. Also, atomic has said elsewhere that if you're over 35 like us, the chances of your egg actually even surviving to 12 hours past O are pretty slim. Not worth it, if you ask me, especially when so many studies suggest timing is meaningless.

I hope this is true for me lol and I did not do o+12

[Flava]

What's everyone eating these days??? My diet is like a broken record...Salad and air-popped popcorn for lunch...More salad and my raspberry/fiber/ricemilk smoothie for dinner. I've also been indulging in Trader Joe's seaweed snacks since they're so addictive and taste like chips. The sodium/cals, etc aren't bad at all but I'm sure seaweed sways blue. Oh, well.

all i do is eat lol but Im sure this Q is not for me hehe

[Out of the Blue]

all i do is eat lol but Im sure this Q is not for me hehe

LOL...sorry......Thought I was in a different thread! Don't tell me what you're eating b/c it'll make me really hungry and I'll want to cheat on my sway!

[Out of the Blue]

Lot's of us don't think the IG spreadsheet is accurate. There is so many girls who do not report back especially the 'failed sways" so I don't give much about their so called success rate.

I think a bunch don't report back about their failed sways there b/c it always seemed like if you ended up w/an opposite, people wouldn't really talk to you anymore. How silly is that? This didn't happen to me but I saw it happen to others. It's really sad! Regardless of what we end up with, we should all celebrate w/eachother. If we don't get what we were hoping for, we need to be there for eachother b/c GD is really a rough thing. We're all about unconditional love and support on this site!

[Out of the Blue]

YIKES...double-post!

[auroara78]

Out of the Blue & Flava,

I agree! I feel like a lot of failed sways do not report back, and I totally understand, but personally, when I sway, if it fails, I'll report back because maybe someone can gleam some wisdom from my mistakes. I also feel that sometimes swaying can seem very competietive, as if you have to "win" and be "victorious" with your DG and if you didn't get your DG, somehow you lost the race. It's not a race; it's a baby!!!

After being on IG and here, it has helped me tremendously come to terms with the idea that if I don't do high tech I cannot guarantee my next baby's gender! I will do what I can to tip the odds, but I don't control it! If I do my best sway I can do, and have a precious third boy, I hope to be supported and loved, not outcasted because I didn't win the "prize"....