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November 22nd, 2019, 09:19 AM
#211
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November 22nd, 2019, 12:57 PM
#212
Thanks so much ladies!
I do have a question, I assume this would be a chemical so will it be ok to resume as normal or do I need to go to the dr?
Will I ovulate after this as in does this count as CD 1?
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November 22nd, 2019, 01:41 PM
#213
Swaying Advice Coach
Yes, count it as CD 1 and there is no need to go to the doctor for this.
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November 23rd, 2019, 11:00 AM
#214
Oh man, my heart is so deeply sad.
Do you think it's possible to get pregnant again after this, esp at my age? I just was so happy but also had a hard time relaxing because I wanted it so bad. I don't know how long I can try again but really want it to happen.
Any advice is welcome
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November 23rd, 2019, 12:44 PM
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Swaying Advice Coach
I do think it's possible to get pregnant again (or I wouldn't keep encouraging you! I tell it like it is!)
We still make good eggs for quite a long time (that is why people can have babies even in their very late 40's). They're just fewer and further between. And there is no rhyme or reason to this. You can go several months, even years, without having any luck, and then make several good eggs in a row. Or make one and then a few bum eggs, and then another good one or two (and then just end up through bad luck not catching those ones, even tho they're good). We just can't know for sure how many fresh eggs are left in the carton (because even with testing at the docs office, it doesn't tell us that much) we can just show up and keep trying. But it is a grueling thing to see AF coming every month, I totally understand that.
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November 23rd, 2019, 01:03 PM
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Thanks so much. Hubby is actually on board so we are gonna try. Dont know if I should do opk, leaning towards not and just bd e4d? Or more? Just want best odds.
I always appreciate your honesty that's why I ask.
And I know I said I wont be back.....I thought for sure after this DH would have been that's it! But we talked and he said he would be on board if it happened, which is a change. He is more positive so I feel.a little hopeful
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November 23rd, 2019, 01:57 PM
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Swaying Advice Coach
I would BD e4d and then if you think you're approaching O (CM, feeling libido, etc) have another attempt. Or don't, if you want better chance of pink. I'm so glad hubby is supportive, that is invaluable!!!
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November 23rd, 2019, 03:45 PM
#218
Originally Posted by
djmommy
Thanks so much. Hubby is actually on board so we are gonna try. Dont know if I should do opk, leaning towards not and just bd e4d? Or more? Just want best odds.
I always appreciate your honesty that's why I ask.
And I know I said I wont be back.....I thought for sure after this DH would have been that's it! But we talked and he said he would be on board if it happened, which is a change. He is more positive so I feel.a little hopeful
this makes me so happy for you for what its worth if i were you id do exactly what Atomic advised, opk's are more stress than they are worth and as soon as you "let go" this last bfp happened for you so i do think its the right approach! keeping everything crossed for a sticky bfp really soon!! xx
now 6blue5pink
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November 23rd, 2019, 05:08 PM
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Awe, it sounds like your DH is so supportive and wants what makes you happy. Hang in there! Do what is easy, like Atomic and 4B2P said. I found when trying for Olivian, which took 13-14mo, not using opks was much easier. I did E4D-E3D depending on how we felt. I really, really think that letting go and being relaxed will make room and allow this little person to come and join your family.
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November 23rd, 2019, 09:19 PM
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I really, really hope so!
Hopefully my body will cooperate and not get crazy! Definitely letting go and just going to enjoy the time with my dh!
Thanks so much for all your support ladies, it really means so much to me. ❤❤❤❤
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