Please help

[cmiller1]

Atomic or anyone with suggestions
This will be my fourth month of swaying and fourth month on LE diet! I am having trouble getting preggo whichh is new for me! With my two boys I got preggo right away w no effort! My question is I'm taking folic acid vitex and saw palmento per atomic! I have lost weight unintentionally while on LE and have started cheating since I am already little and my hubby says I'm too thin ugh so do I stick w the supplements? Should I not do refresh and aci jel this time? Should I not take the cetirizine? Should we do attempts every three days instead of just one attempt at positive ovulation?

[cmiller1]

Oh and I am swaying girl

[MyByC]

My dear, it happend same to me but more then 4 months, I was in shock, I couldnt believe it but it is because of the diet,
your body is weak...I would eat 1 egg before ovulation and start doing it every 2-3 days. Soon your ovulation would be affected if you dont get pregnant, you have to raise chances to get preggy soon....not going into the other extreme and loose weight, loose chances in getting pregnant...
But PLS, PLS focus on your diet and dont cheat too much, maybe once in the weekend so you can continue all this....at least, dont eat between meals and try to raise a little your kcal maybe better then cheating....
Keep my fingers crossed!
I hope this is your month!

[atomic sagebrush]

We need to start dropping things now.

No jellies or antihistamines, and switch to every 4 days now.

Is your cycle regular? If it's acting funny then drop vitex and saw palmetto. If not, give it one more month on them and then drop.

Up calories right away to stop the weight loss. It's not cheating if it's upping cals to stop weight loss.

[cmiller1]

Thanks so much atomic! My cycle was a little weird this month! It came Four days early! I was hoping it was implantation bleeding but it got heavier- only lasted 3-4 days and not as heavy as normal but def more then spotting! Took test to be safe and was neg! I had horrible headaches the last two weeks as well! Ill keep w trying vitex and saw palmento for this month!

[atomic sagebrush]

If you're having headaches I'd drop them.

[cmiller1]

Ok and just to make sure every 4 days then also on positive ovulation test that day as well? I should ovulate at the end of this week so want to make sure I understand

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh gosh I'm so sorry I have been over and over this page and somehow this eluded me.

Most people want to try for a month or two with just e4d before going to e4d plus one but it's really up to you - if you're losing it and ready to make changes to facilitate pregnancy then yes you can add the additional attempt at pos opk. OR, you can switch to just every 4 days for a couple months and see, sometimes it's just that the pos OPK doesn't quite mesh with when we're really Oing and e4d covers you better.

[cmiller1]

Thanks ok I'm conflicted! I so want to be done but at the same time want the best chance at a girl! We have been trying every 4 days but this month has been crazy!!! So last Thursday and not again until this Wednesday then four days would be tomorrow! I got a positive this morning so went ahead and dtd! Hoping I'm ok! I was debating dtd again tomorrow because last month I thought I missed o day- so we tried anyway w dtd then that afternoon I got a positive! I thought I had a good chance of getting pregnant but now wonder if it was too soon! Wondering if my surge is long? I don't want to miss it again this month!

[atomic sagebrush]

IF you see this in time, I'd prob. add another attempt. You may be right it's possible that you could have a long surge and just be missing it.