Thread: I miscarried
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May 17th, 2011, 08:42 PM #1
I miscarried
I had spotting for several days but it was really light pink. Sunday it got darker. i went to my OB and after the ultrasound he gave me some hope....the sac was still measuring right....but last night I miscarried. I'm trying to stay hopeful. I got pregnant really really quick and I was only 5 1/2 weeks along but it's still a loss to me and I'm trying not to get discouraged. How do you all do it? when Should I try again, I'm kind of anxious. Should I sway this time? So many questions, I guess I'm just going to have to give it time.
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Thought we were done...but expecting a surprise #5 nub looks promising for --shock of our life!
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May 17th, 2011, 09:56 PM #2IVF Advice Coach
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I'm so sorry! Give yourself some time. I would not rush things, being a mom of 3 same gender myself and wanted an opposite. I know it is hard to make decisions at such an emotional time but if you really want to TTC a girl, I would try swaying again.
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May 17th, 2011, 11:47 PM #3
So very sorry for your loss.
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May 18th, 2011, 02:03 AM #4
I'm so sorry
I agree with NBP, if you still want your girl, sway again, just give yourself some time, maybe skip a month or two to recover both physically and emotionally. Big hugs to you!!!!m/c 2001
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May 18th, 2011, 02:19 AM #5
I'm so very sorry, Glittergal , how awful! The same thing happened to me at five weeks exactly (December). I was absolutely devastated and the thing that kept me going was knowing that most women who miscarry get pregnant again within three months, and I did get pregnant after three months exactly (second try)! I would really recommend at least one cycle of rest though, if you decide you have the strength to continue.
I'm really happy I continued to try soon, although this pregnancy has been hard because I've been so worried about miscarriage. But I'm nearly twelve weeks now, so my worries are going, although I still have the ultrasound and genetic tests to fret about . Still, I think this goes to show that just because you have one miscarriage, that doesn't need to mean that your next pregnancy is going to go wrong, too. Good luck !2005, swayed for boy, arrived 25/11/2011
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May 18th, 2011, 02:46 AM #6
I am so sorry to hear of your loss glittergirl, thinking of you
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May 18th, 2011, 04:18 AM #7
I miscarried in January, so I know how you feel, and I'm very sorry for your loss. I decided to go HT this time, but I'm sure that if you try again naturally you'll have a healthy pregnancy. Hugs.
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May 18th, 2011, 09:00 AM #8
I'm so sorry! Sending you big hugs! I also think you need some time although I totally understand wanting to try again right away. Been there, done that!
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May 18th, 2011, 04:42 PM #9
Thanks everyone...this was so hard because it never happened before so I had no idea what to expect. The hard part is my doc's office just called to tell me the lab work and hcg levels came back and everything is great....I had all that done just 5 hours before it happened. In my heart I know it was meant to be. I try to stay positive and remind myself just cause it happened, doesn't mean it will happen again.
3 handsome s!
our sway worked!
Thought we were done...but expecting a surprise #5 nub looks promising for --shock of our life!
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May 18th, 2011, 08:18 PM #10Dream Vet
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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