Thread: Loss
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December 24th, 2014, 10:37 AM #21
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December 24th, 2014, 11:54 AM #22
I am so sorry 2boysjustonegirl. I am praying for strength and healing to be sent your way. 😢
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December 24th, 2014, 12:19 PM #23
Loss
Thankyou ladies. I ended up having a D&C, after 48 hours there was still remains so I chose to just get it done and stop the drama of repeated ultrasounds and hospital visits. I couldn't take it anymore. I won't ever forget what the remains I passed looked like. 💔
Today has been very difficult so far. I am so weepy and just empty. I feel like my chance to have a daughter came and went. It's unbelievable how much this hurts right now and how angry I feel.Last edited by 2boysJustOneGirl; December 24th, 2014 at 12:21 PM.
2 baby boys blessed Hoping for a little girl to complete our family
Angel baby Decemeber 23confirmedand pregnant again nowPlease, please be my little girl!
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December 24th, 2014, 01:02 PM #24Swaying Advice Coach
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Just to play "Bonnie Brightside" try to keep in mind, there are ladies on here with 3,4,5 girls in a row and Michelle Duggar had something like 6 boys in a row, then turned around and conceived 5 girls in a row. It does happen. Huge (((Hugs)))
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December 24th, 2014, 01:30 PM #25
I am so so sorry for your loss, it's so unfair!
But you did conceive a girl so you are capable and you will again I'm sure
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December 24th, 2014, 02:39 PM #26Dream Vet
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So sorry to hear of your loss and that it was confirmed to be your girl. How heart wrenching and unfair. Hopefully the MC can play a greater part in your pink sway as you have done it once so can do it again. Stay strong xo Some say pregnancies after a loss can be extra sticky due to just being pregnant before. I got two healthy ones just 4 months after my loss but I decided not to sway. I do sometimes regret that but I would never give back my twins of coarse. For me it helped being pregnant again so soon to heal the pain. I think if I had two and was going for number three I would not have stopped swaying. Goodluck and wishing you a nice Christmas surrounded by caring people. I hope the future holds a healthy daughter for you xoxo
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December 24th, 2014, 02:49 PM #27
I'm so sorry for your loss. What an incredibly difficult thing to go through during the holidays. I had my loss in October and was a mess for weeks after. Sending you lots of healing vibes your way during this difficult time. (((HUGS)))
Me: 35 years old. Was an infant nanny and birth and postpartum doula. Now a full time SAHM.
DS1: Aug 2003 (my first home birthed water baby!)
DS2: May 2009 (my second home birthed water baby!)
Oct 2014
July 2016: Laproscopic surgery to remove a ping pong ball sized endometrioma on left ovary and 3 pea size fibroids on outside of uterus. Hysteroscopy to remove one larger "penetrating fibroid" inside uterus.
Oct 2016: Heartbroken after DH's vasectomy. Looks like my dreams of a daughter are gone.
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December 25th, 2014, 01:42 AM #28
I'm so sorry your going through this 2boys! I'm sure you have a fair chance to get a healthy girl soon. Sending you healing vibes xx
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December 25th, 2014, 06:43 PM #29
I'm so very sorry for your loss!
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Praying and hopefully soon swaying for a precious pink princess to further complete our family
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December 26th, 2014, 05:41 PM #30Dream Vet
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oh hun, been there, it's an awful feeling and a huge heartbreak, and the worst thing is that society expects you to 'move on' as early M/C are not usually 'mourned for', at least that's how I felt when I had mine at 9 weeks (baby measuring 6 and a half). I heard lots of 'it wasn't meant to be' and hurt in silence. If you feel like that just come here and tell us how you feel, many ladies here will understand and sympathize. And allow yourself to grieve. Hugs.
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