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November 2nd, 2016, 01:15 PM
#1
What ive realised and Thank you
Its been a week today
Ive been fumbling around on the forums the last few days not really knowing my place. Im not in the DD thread any more, im not in the 2ww, im not even swaying..
Im here.. Pregnancy loss section. A place i didnt think i would be again. In one week ive realised this.. that i can put my mind to anything. I did the LE for 7 straight months because i put my mind to it, as difficult as it was. I realised how much a do really really want a 3rd child. I realised not telling family you are pregnant, means you cant expect their support. I realised that people do care. And i was taken such good care of at the hospital where i spent the night in abdominal pain. I realised that as much as i wished for my baby to be a girl,a healthy baby comes first. I realised how incredibly lucky i am to have a darling husband who was willing to take on this journey of a 3rd child with me. Ive also realised however, that if i were to have no more, i have two beautiful healthy boys.
Last Wednesday morning i woke up bleeding. I miscarried that evening at 12 weeks + 6 days, the very next day was my scheduled 12 week scan which confirmed no baby.
I didnt want to talk about this here. But then i thought to myself, just like i came here to get some comfort, so might someone else.
OH, and Thank you Because this site and its members have helped me further along than i would have been able to go alone trying for a girl. Thank you for this particular section where girls like me can read through messages of support and encouragement. I felt supported through my sway and i feel supported through my loss. I can only be grateful and thankful for that. Being on the forums now is bitter sweet, but im finding it helpful.
For anyone reading this in the future - here is a link i found useful
Facts about Miscarriage – Information, hope, and healing
Im going to stick around and hopefully have some good news one day soon x
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November 2nd, 2016, 03:30 PM
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Swaying Advice Coach
I'm so sorry squiggle. Please let me know how I can help.
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November 2nd, 2016, 04:41 PM
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Big Dreamer
I'm so sorry squiggle and I wish you the very best!!!
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November 2nd, 2016, 04:53 PM
#4
You have been so brave and positive Hun. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your heart heals and we are all here if you ever need us.
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November 2nd, 2016, 05:16 PM
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Dream Vet
So very sorry for your loss xxx
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How strange it is to miss someone who has never existed... but now you are here, I recognised your beautiful face instantly, my little missing puzzle piece
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'No one knows when or how their story ends...' My wonderful mum 2014.
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November 2nd, 2016, 06:37 PM
#6
So sorry for your loss Squiggle. I hope in time your heart can mend a little. Hopefully you can find the support you need as it is hard when you can't confide in your family at times like this. Sending big hugs.
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November 3rd, 2016, 10:02 AM
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Dream Vet
So sorry squiggle. My heart breaks for you.
Pregnant with baby GIRL #2, due August 2019
Successful girl sway, born in 2017.
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November 4th, 2016, 11:18 AM
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Moderator
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November 4th, 2016, 11:23 AM
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I so so sorry squigglepink, my heart is just breaking for you. I hope you find the support you need on here and in real life! Take care of yourself and I am thinking of you and we are all here for you! X
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November 6th, 2016, 07:58 AM
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Dreamer
Squiggle lm really sorry to hear your news. I haven't been around due to to an ectopic pregnancy. I send you my deepest heart felt condolences.
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hoping for a healthy baby in 2017, swaying pink
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Healthy baby girl :)