TTC and planning when you're older
I'm 40 and we have been ttc since September (currently taking 6w off, to try to address some blood work issues). I had an early loss two months ago.
At risk of sounding like a crazy person... I really don't want a mid-winter due date/baby but that's where the next few months are heading.
I'm wondering if anyone older has had a strong adverse reaction to things like that, and planned around it, or not. I realize just because I'm older my chances are lowered but really I would so so so so much rather have a spring or summer or even fall baby.
I've had to suck up a lot of things to be in this spot, and I realize it seems small but it affects work and leave and family... and it feels a tad like looking a gift horse in their mouth...
Has anyone felt like that? How did you adjust yourself, or did you follow your personal feelings and wait... or...?