Congrats! With my first I totally thought I started my period then it fizzled out and I got a BFP! I hope ti sticks!Quote:
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Congrats! With my first I totally thought I started my period then it fizzled out and I got a BFP! I hope ti sticks!Quote:
Originally Posted by boywish
Congrats boywish! All these bfps are so exciting! Wishing you all happy, healthy, and hopefully blue!
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Thanks everyone! Had my bloods done yesterday and they were 68 - makes me slightly nervous as they were higher with DD at the same time. Seeing GP tomorrow and will ask to do another set. Appointment with on isn't until 8 weeks - I hate the waiting part!
Have my fingers crossed for more blue swayers BFPs!
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so dumb question but is this posative?https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...3c23de4386.jpg
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Boywish, how many days post ovulation are you? 68 is not an issue in itself, it will depend on cinetic of numbers (pattern of growth). Keep us posted! (DD1 was 82 at 12/13dpo and 72 for DD2 at 12dpo..what matters is that the numbers rise harmoniously ..that early gestation, doubling every 48-72h ).
Homme..that's looking pretty darn close/already positive (sorrynam on my phone so can't see pic all that well). Exciting!! ;) sounds like BD is on the cards for you :D
So I know this is going to be TMI sorry. So I am pretty sure that's a positive and I'm super surprised to see it in CD10. SO DH and I tried to DTD this morning and he ended up having performance anxiety and couldn't do it. So Now I don't know what to do. We have been DTD every other day and of course today he is having trubble. What worries me more is we DTD on CD8 and now I have a positive OPK today (CD10) but If we cant get more than one attempt in I will be crushed. Any advice? Should we just scrap this month?????
@bommy- that looks positive to me! Since you already had one attempt maybe you should still try to get in two more? Did you tell dh you had a postitive opk and that gave him the anxiety? Maybe try bd tonight without bringing anything up about ttc?
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That's the plan. We are not super active I know TMI our normal is like once or twice a week. So this has been a bit of an adujstment. I am going to try tonight I really hope we can do two tonight.Quote:
Originally Posted by MsMarie89
Also is it weird to get a positive at CD10? I normally O around CD 14 but this must be early???
You have to give him time to rest, two times in one evening is a bit much and he won't be giving you many swimmers. Try tonight and again tomorrow morning.
The BD part is the only thing that concerns me about the boy sway. Think mostly because it's one part that ultimately is out of my control. DP has been known to have a bit of performance anxiety when we are ttc, no issues any other time so have definitely decided to keep the opk part to myself. We have 2 kids under 3 so we are probably only averaging 1-2 BD sessions a week also so just finding time to increase to every other day will be tricky but fun. I'd try and get another attempt in, given BD attempts isn't everything, especially if you're feeling confident with your diet.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bommy_7
thanks everyone for talking me off the ledge. I'm not going to stress about it and focus on getting another attempt tonight.
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I feel ya too with the kids making it hard to did so much for us as well. I'm trying not to stress about it but I've always been super type a so I pick apart everything.Quote:
Originally Posted by MiaMelb
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Now on the computer – I can see the pic better: definitely looks positive! it could be you won’t ovulate until CD12 ish – depending on when the surge actually started (you could have caught it just as LH started to surge) – so not that weird… especially if you usually ovulate around CD14. The diet may have helped with it too?
Definitely don’t try to cram in 2 attempts especially if hubby has had performance anxiety – like Cosmosis said, one at night then one the next morning if possible… ;)
If you have changed your BD regime just recently – he probably feels pressured to perform regardless of whether you tell him it’s attempt time or not : that’s why we have gradually increased our BD to be aligned with the pattern I want for when we start TTC soon. He won’t feel “surprised” that I suddenly am all over him – when I weaned almost 2 months ago now, my libido got waaay better anyways so not an issue to up the ante so to speak – so maybe if this month doesn’t work for you, trying easing into the new BD pattern, IYKWIM?
I am on CD-5, and I am planning for this month ttc baby boy. Can any body tell me that coconut oil can be used as a lubricant? I dont know either preseed is available in my country or not.
I dont know about using coconut as lubricant but i find that drinking lots of lemon water help with producing a lot more CM. goodluck with your ttc. Keep us updated. Fx for you!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sumbal
Hi all. This is our second ttc boy cycle. How is everyone doing?
I wanted to ask a quick question. How soon after stable smiley can you BD? Using the advanced Clearblue opk. Appreciate any input.
I got mine this morning. [emoji4]
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6513f2
I am also new here. But to my understanding, there should be three consective bd, night of positive OPK then next day morning and night again.
Lots of blue dust on your way
Thank you so much.Quote:
Originally Posted by shinay
One more question flax seeds sway blue? If yes then how to take it?
On CD6. Excite and nervous. Because I may ovulate on new moon phase.
So I got my cross hairs today! By this chart I got only two attempts so I an hopeful!https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...163bbd94b3.jpg
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I'm kinda surprised I O'd that early
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FX Bommy!!! :D
Welcome Sumbal! I think Atomic now recommends avoiding flax seeds (a bit in food is ok but supplementing not ok)... ;)
This swaying thing has an impact on all levels..just dreamt last night we went for the NT scan , and they only managed one pic because all machines suddenly broke dozwn..but they said, don't worry come back tomorrow you ll be able to see your healthy little boy ( the place I go for ob scans does the Nipt test and intend to get the nipt when expecting ^^)... sô weird, but am hoping it's my bodys' way of saying "it's ok, it will happen!"
@cookoo Mumma haha
Fx for you too Bommy. The stats show the 2 attempts still increase your chances of a boy so hopefully that and a few HE lifestyle factors will help. Looking forward to hearing when you poas.
CD-8. Ovulation coming closer. I don't know exactly when ll ovulate. Will start OPK from CD-9. Once I got pregnant in November 2016 on CD-11, but got misscarriage. So by this calculation, it seems that I ovulate early like on CD-11 or CD12. Excited but nervous also. Please send lots of blue dust to me. Also suggest anything important for my sway.
Can anyone chim in as to what vitamins you are taking? We are planning to start trying in June so prepping this week to start next week with diet. I've read folate, a multi vitamin and maybe calcium? I'm 35 so I think she mentioned 2,000 of folate?
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My essentials sway supplements are wheatgrass in whatever form you can afford, fish oil, womens one a day and vitamin D 1000ug :) These boost all your nutrients but don't mess around with your hormones as far as I know:) And of course a folate or folic acid for a healthy baby of any gender x
Women one a day, probiotics, folate and Coq10. Should I take any more?
That's exactly what Atomic told me to take :)Quote:
Originally Posted by meoab
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I am on CD-9, when should start OPK? Cycle 29-30 days. And once got pregnant on CD-11. Please suggest.
I would suggest you to start testing today. And as the line getting darker or when you see more CM, increase the frequency of testing maybe 2-3 times a day to make sure that you dont miss your LH surgeQuote:
Originally Posted by Sumbal
Okay THank you. I will start from today. Till now I do not have any CMQuote:
Originally Posted by shinay
Please send me blue dust???????
Also please tell me that on what time I should test OPK?
Most of us swaying blue have only/many girls so don't have the blue dust to give unfortunately. Think we're all pretty keen to have some blue dust, better raid the pink sway forum:rofl:Quote:
Originally Posted by Sumbal
I got positive OPK today on CD-9. How this can be possible that I ovulate so early. When to DTD?
Every cycle is different...maybe you are stressed which also change your ovulation day. If you want more response, I think you could create a new thread and maybe post your chart so others could see and give you better feedback?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sumbal
DTD today. I O'd on CD 10 this cycle so it is totally possible to O earlier. Try for 3 attempts in the next 48 hours!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sumbal
DTD today. I O'd on CD 10 this cycle so it is totally possible to O earlier. Try for 3 attempts in the next 48 hours!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sumbal
Once I conceived on CD-11 that got miscarriage. Is mean my fertility starts at CD 9 and I ovulate on CD 11?Quote:
Originally Posted by Bommy_7