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Oh deaks, I have everything crossed for a good outcome for you. I'm so sorry you're going through it x Are you still on holiday? If you can, post on the main board because maybe somebody has been through the same thing and there are a lot of knowledgeable ladies who might not read your message here. {hugs}
Thanks zanacal. just spoke to a doctor and he says if the bleeding settles over the weekend then it might not end in a miscarriage but the fact that im cramping isn't a great sign. Just worried about what he said about eptopic pregnancy being a slight possibility if i notice sharp pain on one side. Hope i would be able to distinguish between that pain and the painful cramps i am getting now.
Oh deaks HUGE HUGS x I am keeping everything crossed the bleeding subsides and you have a sticky beanie x the fact you got a + on a digi shows you have a decent amount of HCG in your body as they arent the most sensitive test. I really hope you have a good outcome thinking of you x FX FX FX
Can I ask where you ladies get your Cranberry Supps from?
I heard its the calic on the back of their heads - which direction its facing will be the gender. DS2 has one in each direction!!Quote:
Originally Posted by charlieispy
oh deaks - I have no idea whats going on but if your hormones are up that much maybe there is still hope? fx for you xxxx
Just got back from A&E as i was in loads of pain (ab and back) and after being worried by the doctor and stuff i read on the internet about ectopic pregnancy, i got totally freaked out. Anyway their pg test said not pregnant (though my urine was not as concentrated and it had only been held for an hour) so i have come home non the wiser! The doctor there said to go back to my normal doctors on monday and get re-tested. Am hoping that either the clearblue digi gave me a false positive or that my beanie manages to stick if its healthy! Am on paracetemol for the pain and need some sleep. Maybe the bleeding will have stopped by the morning...FX
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oh deaks x BIG BIG BIG hugs x I dont think i have ever heard of CB digi ever giving a false BFP as they arent as sensitive x Oh hun I really hope the bleeding has stopped by the time you get up and you are just having some serious implantation. With ds3 I was rushed to A&E with spotting and so much pain I couldnt get out of bed - that turned out to be him implanting more......I hope this is the outcome for you x
thinking of you x x
Petal - labour vibes x x
off to work now - i have serious baby brain already forgot ds2 had a party yesterday till it was too late and forgot i was working!!! oh dear
Thanks hun, woke up to constant bleeding this morning. haven't even dared take a hpt. Going to head to the docs tomorrow as i really need this problem sporting...im pretty sure this is the second chemical pregnancy i've had. Thinking im going to drop the swaying apart from the timing as i cant help but think its linked. what do you ladies think? i know tamara says there is no link but maybe i have altered my body balance too much that it cant cope? or perhaps its just my short-ish lp...could the egg have tried to implant too late? i guess these are the questions i will ask my doc though i don't think i could ever bring up the swaying.
Petal, thinking of you, willing your little man to arrive!
Charlie, hope the baby brain doesn't continue at work!!
LMAO, We too have the train table but the one that is in Argos and i agree its always piled high of other toys. And the track isnt used and pieces are missing!Quote:
Originally Posted by zanacal
Your experience with DS1 sounds terrible Petal! What an awful midwife to talk to you like that. Good job your Husband stepped in for your defense! I dont know about them only letting your DH visit you only during visiting hours but here your DP is allowed to come and go as he pleases!Quote:
Originally Posted by Petal
awww deaks! im gutted for you! I really hope your little bean sticks! Ive never suffered from a chemical pregnancy, so dont really know much about them but will google it. I dont blame you for going straight into A&E after your doctor talking about eptopic pg as that would scare the hell out of me too. got my fingers and toes crossed for you hun! Hiope your DP is being supportive for you!
Deaks I'm so sorry your going through this, I hope you get to the bottom of it all! ((hugs))
Lol about the train table, hmmm maybe it's not such a good idea then! I'm going to sound awful here but it's really quite good! We have decked out our cupboard under the stairs (Harry potter style lol) and the kids toys are all in there, the door is in our living room so Charlie comes and go's getting his toys out so us having the table in the livingroom wouldn't be to bad I don't think, I'll have to have a think!
Petal hope things are on the go for you!! :)
Charlie lol! I'm super forgetful! Can I still blame baby brain if I've not been pregnant for nearly 3 years! :)
Well we went to a wedding reception last night! It was lovely to spend time with friends while the children were at their auntys!
Only problem is I've had a SERVERE illergic reaction to my super expensive makeup, and now my eyes look and feel awful! They are super swollen top and bottom, really red, and it almost looks like acid burns on my eye lids, I have open wounds which are oozing! I look delightful!
I'm going to have to hibernate for a while and lay off the makeup I think, they are going to have to scab over and heel, I hope it doesn't take too long :(
Must get on and clean up! Have a great day! :)
Still bleeding though cramps have subsided a bit. Weird thing is my ic bfp is darker today. Mind you it was so so faint yesterday. But today it came up very very quickly and a tiny bit darker...the kind of faint line you don't even question. Is this because hcg levels continue to increase for a bit during miscarriage? Just wish I knew what to do. Doctor is going to call me back very soon. Can you still be implanting but get a bfp at the same time? Think it probably wishful thinking.
I think you need to be seen by a doctor and only time will tell what is going on. Many of the HT gals, including myself, have red bleeding- quite a bit sometimes- well into the first trimester. It can just happen. I hope you figure out what is going on.
Kell - Your allergic reaction to the make up sounds terrible. I hope you stop using it as continuous use could cause damage and scarring!
I dont really know what to suggest deaks! i agree with what Atomic said about early tests are more of a curse than anything. Because if you hadnt of tested at all you would think Af would have started. I hope the doctor calls soon and can put your mind at ease! Let us all know what the Dr says xxxx Thinking of you xxxxQuote:
Originally Posted by deaks66
Sunset- Nice to here you've arrived back in England nice and safely. Hope your starting to feel alot better.
lavenderlime - hope everythings okay! You've not been on in a while! hope your coping with the diet etc. Have they collected the playhouse yet?
I agree to some extent that early tests are a curse, but on the other hand at least I know there is a problem that needs sorting. At least I have the knowledge that an egg is being fertilized and some kind if implantation is occurring to get a bfp. Hopefully I will now be able to find out if there is something such as my LP or low progesterone causing the chemical. It's crap but I will get it sorted.
Just spoke to doc and as I'm having period type flow with some small clots and pain has stopped, she thinks miscarriage has happened and now lining just emptying out. Will still get bfp for a few days. She says I should wait til after another af to start trying. But I have heard most women try straight away. What do you guys think? Feeling a bit calmer and atomic has given me loads of good advice.
Hiya just popping in to catch up. Just had a super busy weekend trying to finish the garden before the Ds2's party next week.
Deaks so sorry your going through this. I've never had a chemical. But I do know of a person who have had a period type bleed all through her pregnancy.
Is the bleed and cramping like a normal AF, worse, or milder than normal?
I really hope you get some answers on Monday and I really hope it's just your little bean is implanting. x
Thanks lavender.
The bleed is like a normal af and the cramping was agony for several hours. Pretty sure it's not implantation as had a few tiny clots when I wiped. Plus I don't think I would have got a bfp until after implantation. Just taking it easy today and having a re- think about my sway as can't risk a third chemical ever! Sorry little bean for letting you down :(
such a bummer deaks. if it was me i would TTC straight away again as really the fetus hasn't had much time to develop, this has seemed to happen pretty much when Af should have showed. Unless when you consult your Dr he may prescribe something else to maby lengthen your LP such as clomid and advise you on when to start ttc again! Just have to wait and see what happens tomorrow!
Sorry cross post Littlemiss and Deaks
But i'm good though Littlemisswilko and the playhouse has been colected DP fitted the new one on Friday and I have been painting it all over the weekend. He's just doing the tiles now!
Oh the diet is killing me i've been so ill just seem to catch everything at the drop of a hat. Got another cold now! I was a bit naughty this morning and had breakfast! It was a pancakes with some frozen raspberries heated up in the microware. It was really yummy (would have been nicer with some sugar!) and all the ingredients ar on the girl diet. Just the breakfast bit was bad.
Deaks sorry to hear the doctor thinks it's a MC. My last 3 AF had clots in them? What does that mean. I just thought it ment that my AF were just becoming heavier. I really hope they can give you something to lengthen your LP. x
Lavender, that's the annoying thing, I already have the prescribed progesterone crinone to lengthen my LP but stopped taking it over my summer cycles to see if my LP was any better on it's own. It was a bit but obviously still borderline. Wish I had taken it but cant look back at what ifs or I would torture myself. Not keen on clomid even though it sways girl so hopefully the doc will just say get back on the progesterone or similar. Will be good to get bloods done though to check there is nothing there that's a problem.
Sorry forgot to add lavender, not sure about clots on your af. Sure it's normal and if you haven't had bfp then nothing to worry about I wouldn't think. X
lavender, i sometimes get clots during af! i used to have really heavy periods in which got quite alot of clots but after taking clomid it has had an effect on my periods and made them slightly lighter and dont last as long!
Oh Deaks, im so sorry to read your posts :-( i hope you soon feel better, i know it may not help but the pregnancy just wasnt meant to be, try and look at it like that rather than blaming yourself. Keep your chin up hun, we are all here for you
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Still no news on this little lazy boy!! Had a thought earlier.. if i do go in to be induced thursday eve he may be born friday...11.11.11 how cool would that be! i may get in the local paper lmao ;-) x
Deaks, another thought... did you get your iron levels checked? My lp's were always 10-11 days, which im sure is why it took me forever to get pregnant (aswell as super long cycles) My iron levels were 4.7 which is super low, once i got them up i had 30 day cycles which 13-14 day lp's. x
Deaks - I am still keeping everything crossed for you if your HPTs are getting darker you have more HCG in your system which theoretically shouldnt happen if you are MCing - POAS tomorrow and see if it is darker again....if so I would question MC. I also second Petal and the iron thing though if this beanie doesnt stick - my LP was only 10days I know taking b12 and iron helped this.
Petal - FX you dont have to be induced by 11/11/11 would be totally awesome
you havnt let anyone down hun x xQuote:
Originally Posted by deaks66
Yes I will ask about iron levels tomorrow at the docs as well as anything else that could be affecting my LP such as thyroid. Thanks also for the kind words, you are right, it wasn't meant to be and I'm feeling much calmer now and ready to get on with this cycle.
That would be soooo cool for your baby to be born on Friday... At least that's one benefit of the induction! X
Thanks Charlie, yeah I will test again tomorrow and I'm certainly not going to restart any cranberry etc before I know for sure. I just can't imagine a baby sticking with all this blood loss though. X
So sorry your going through all this Deaks, i hope you can find the answers soon. Big hugs xx
i was only thinking about that aswell today. I thought how lovely it would be to have a child born on that day. It didn't even enter my thought process that your Little one could possibly be born on that day. Well at least if he does decides to show on that day. It wouldn't be hard to forget his date of birth ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Petal
No you definately havent let anybody down deaks, what will be, will be! xxxxx ((HUGS))Quote:
Originally Posted by charlieispy
im 8 DPO today and was planning on POAS tomorrow morning but i havent managed to go out today to buy some cheapies. i was thinking of collecting FMU and saving it untill i had bought some cheapies to test but was worried that the HGC would evaporate like LH does. What do you gals think?
I always wander that, you could give it a go as you have nothing to loose I guess?! What brand will you buy? I have heard that super drug ones are as good as frer.
Thanks ladies, you have been a massive support to me today. Feels like my swaying journey is a real roller coaster and I just want this weight to be lifted off my shoulders. One thing that I am glad about though is that at least I can get pg at o+12, I never thought it would happen as couldn't get pg with my boys without dtd on ov. I have often suspected that o+12 is easier to get pg by than cutoff and I guess for me it is :)