First of all, a warning for your overall health - NEVER stop any vitamin or mineral cold turkey. Your body needs them to operate, and it can get used to megadoses and it can be bad for you and for a baby on board to stop them all of a sudden like that.
I personally suggest dropping the fish, chicken, and turkey and going fully vegetarian for your sway... I know that's not the IG way, but we've been having good luck with it and it got me my girl!
Before you decide what to do with timing, have a read of this: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...le-timing.html
I don't think acijel is a great lube really. Sylk is better (which is why I recommend it.) I am not sold on acetic acid doing anything magical and I've seen unsuccessful sways using Acijel in addition to success stories.
I do not believe calcium sways pink and I really really do not think unlimited amounts of milk are good for pink - there are so many nutrients in milk. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...roversial.html
A good summary of the type of diet some of us have had success with is here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...l-version.html